It's All My Husband's Fault

  We've heard nothing from The Ex since one month ago when she told Husband he's "the only jerk" who would charge her interest for medical bills that are unpaid for 30 days as our state law allows him to do.  Technically, Daughter should have been picked up yesterday for The Ex's summer placement but she's got graduation and birthday parties that she wants to attend here, so The Ex is letting her stay. ( On one hand, I feel like this is going to lead to The Ex not bringing Daughter back when she's supposed to and claiming that Husband "switched" weekends with her.  On the other hand, I think she'll roll with it because she's tired of always trying to fight us and losing...it doesn't fare well for her narcissistic ego to constantly be reminded that she's wrong. )   While The Ex has disengaged from Husband and me, she's posted some stuff to Facebook that's...different.  I mean, she's weird by herself but still...   A...

  Girlfriend messaged me on Snapchat on Monday night, asking if she could ask me a question and said she didn't want it getting back to The Ex.  I told her of course; I said that I never talked to The Ex and I certainly wouldn't repeat anything she asked, especially knowing that she didn't want The Ex knowing about it.   Girlfriend replied: "Is grandparent rights a thing in [Our State]? I just got into an argument with her and she brought it up. Shes fucking crazy I swear to god. I dont have an issue with her until she started bad mouthing me to everyone. Shes saying Im brain washing [Son] and that Im keeping [the baby] from her and shit. I dont care if she dont like me but she should still have reaspect. She told me she can get custody of him and I just stopped responding. She got mad we didnt go to [The Ex's son's] game today when she told us at 5:38 and it was at 6:00. I'm not telling [Son] about anything only because hes sick and stressing out as is....

  This post is a couple weeks late, but let's go back to this whole issue with The Ex and/or Ned being investigated for child abuse.   I was really back-and-forth about contacting the social worker.  I didn't want to stir the pot, particularly over something that didn't involve me or Husband at all.  Son and Daughter are the only ones we need to concern ourselves with and they weren't the ones directly involved, so maybe we should just stay out of it.  A friend of mine commented that it might just be best to have faith that God was going to take care of it as He saw fit, The Ex would get what she had coming eventually, and that it might just be best not to insert ourselves in the situation any further.  I was honestly, truly ready to just let it go.   And then, I learned more than I wanted to.   A couple of months ago, The Ex was saying that she "kind of yelled at [Lucifer]."  The gist of it was that this particular incident started whe...

  Happy Mother's Day to all of you beautiful women out there.  Thank you for all the hard work you put into your kids regardless of there being a biological link or not.   We celebrated early yesterday with all four of the kids, plus Girlfriend and our grandbaby.  I figured they'd be busy with The Ex, Girlfriend's mom, and it also being Girlfriend's first ever Mother's Day so we opted to do it a day early.  Son even bought me a present which made me tear up. ( I think Girlfriend made him do it but considering how our relationship was at this time last year, it definitely touches my heart. )   The Ex, on the other hand, is being her crazy narcissistic self.  Daughter said on Friday night that she didn't even know if The Ex was picking her up today.  Daughter had texted her asking what time they were coming for her; The Ex replied by asking what time she'd be in Tourist City on Saturday. ( We were celebrating Mother's Day in Tourist City.  ...

  Ohhhhh, you guys...this has just been one hell of a crappy week so far, but leave it to The Ex to turn it all around and have me laughing.   Husband messaged her back on March 29th, even though we were fully aware that she had not logged into 2houses since February 25th.  Husband wrote that he had picked his first summer week, updated the calendar, and would pick his second summer week at a later date. ( For those of you who don't know, The Ex has primary physical custody during the summer; Husband gets every other weekend, alternating holidays, and two full nonconsecutive weeks. )   Then Husband addressed the real reason he was messaging her: The Ex still wasn't paying toward her half of the kids' medical bills and they were accruing interest as ordered by the court.  Husband didn't want to end up in court seeking a contempt order for her refusal to pay only to have The Ex claim she "didn't know" there was interest being added, she would have p...

  The Ex and Ned officially got married the day before Easter.   Daughter had been talking about it for a couple of weeks, saying lots of not-so-nice things.  She's come straight out before and said she didn't think the two of them should be getting married.  Early last week, Daughter commented to nobody in particular that The Ex and Ned needed couples therapy before they got married and then added, "And Mom( The Ex ) needs therapy by herself." ( Daughter isn't even 17 yet.  She recognizes the immaturity that her mother's relationship is built on and can identify her mom's mental/emotional instability.  Honestly, it's like she got none of The Ex's genes whatsoever. )  Daughter asked me "what would happen" if she stood up when they were asked if anyone objected to the wedding.  I told Daughter not to do that.  Daughter asked if it really would do anything or if it was just something they asked at weddings.  I said objecting would ...

  So apparently, this investigation into The Ex and/or Ned started when Daughter was on spring break and was at their house.  A social worker and a police officer came to the house and spoke to Ned.  Allegedly, he offered to let them speak to Daughter but they declined...only to contact our county three weeks later and ask them to speak to Daughter, which doesn't make any sense but whatever.   Since Daughter talked to the social worker, I've learned quite a few things.  The Ex admitted  out loud that the investigation was happening because of "a little bruise that [Lucifer] got from a spanking" and accused Ned's ex-wife of "pushing on it" to make it look worse than it was. ( So she basically admitted that not only do she and/or Ned spank Lucifer, but one of them hit him hard enough to leave a bruise.  I don't know what your thoughts on spanking are, but there should never be a bruise on a child as a result of having their butt smacked.  Ever . )...