It's All My Husband's Fault

  Sometimes, I really wish that I could understand what makes a person act like such a damn fool.   Months ago, Daughter brought home a sheet of paper saying there was a weekend basketball tournament and we needed to sign it if she was going to participate; she said she wanted to go so we signed it.  Husband updated the calendar to reflect that Daughter had a tournament that weekend; just so you don't think I'm crazy, I've uploaded screen caps of their 2houses account: Photo 1 shows that Husband added the tournament to the calendar on January 10th Photo 2 shows that Husband included the name and location of the school where the tournament was being held. Photo 3 shows the 2houses joint calendar reflecting the date of the tournament as well as the name and location of the school.   The Ex was given two full months notice about this tournament; she never asked Husband any questions, never asked to switch weekends, never indicated if she was attendi...

  I pride myself of having a pretty great memory with most things, but there are times I'm forgetful.  Anyone who has kids - step, biological, adopted, or foster - understands that there's a lot going on and a lot to remember.  The more kids you have, the busier you are; more appointments, more practices, more games, more recitals, etc.  It's understandable that things might slip your mind every now and again.  But for the life of me, I cannot understand someone who always seems to forget when they're getting placement of their children.   In the past, The Ex has forgotten it's her placement weekend.  One time, she and Husband switched weekends, she didn't exercise her placement on the weekend they switched for, blamed Husband for not reminding her, and then announced that he "still owed her" another weekend.  Another time, she left a message at almost 7:30pm on Thursday saying she "completely forgot" that she was supposed to pick up the ki...