And the claws are out!
To cover all bases before making any accusations, we contacted both the dentist and doctor's offices; we provided The Ex's insurance information and asked them to please verify coverage for both Son and Daughter. Both offices said that the insurance companies were showing it to be a valid policy under The Ex's name, but they weren't recognizing Son or Daughter as being covered under that policy. Husband messaged The Ex and said that we contacted the offices, who indicated that the kids were not covered. Husband said we contacted the customer service number on the back of the card that The Ex had given us, and it was indicating that she was enrolled in an "employee only" policy. Husband asked why The Ex would lie about this, pointed out she said the deadline to submit Son's birth certificate was 12/27 but her card had been issued on 12/23; he pointed out that The Ex kept asking him for info and blamed him for Son not being covered, when she knew al...