"By court order..."
The court order says that The Ex will get the kids on any days they have off of school; if these days land on Husband's weekend, then the two of them will switch weekends. This upcoming weekend, Son has off of school on Friday but Daughter does not. Two different schools, two different schedules. Husband sent a message to The Ex alllll the way back on January 7th explaining all of this, and asking if she would like to switch weekends or if she just wanted to leave the schedule as it currently was. I have a screencap showing that this message was read by 9:39pm the same day it was sent. The Ex did not reply. Husband sent another message to The Ex on January 15th saying that he had asked what she'd like to do about this weekend and since she had not responded, we would be leaving the schedule as it is. Again, a screencap showing that this message was read by 6:44pm the same day it was sent. ( This was the message blogged about last time. ...