It's All My Husband's Fault

  In 2009, The Ex gave Husband her email address.  For what, I don't know but she did.  Then placement changed, the kids came to live here, Husband told The Ex he would email her information.  Daughter wanted to be in cheerleading; Husband asked The Ex who agreed to Daughter participating but said she wasn't going to help pay for it.  Within two weeks of this happening, Husband emailed The Ex with info about Daughter's practice and performances ( Exactly thirty-one days after this email was sent, The Ex screamed at Husband that he hadn't discussed this with her )  The same day that Husband sent the email about cheerleading, he also emailed The Ex about a PTA meeting which she chose not to attend ( And then months later, she called the school and said she had "no idea" where the kids had been attending school )   Husband emailed her about the kids' therapy appointments; she never came to a single one of them. ( Way to support your children. ...

  Sometime in mid-January:      “It’s [The Ex], I just wanted to talk to the kids. Can you please have them call me? Thanks.”   An hour and forty-nine minutes later:      “Hey [Husband], it’s [The Ex]. I called about two hours ago, if not a little more, to talk to the kids. Um, still waiting for you to have them call me back. Bye.” ( It was Family Night.  We didn't have our phones and she knew this. )   Early February:      “Hey [Husband], it’s [The Ex]. Wanted to talk to the kids, if you can have them return my call. Um...I know you say 5 o’clock is the best time to call so...I was hoping to catch ‘em. Have ‘em give me a call. Bye.”  ( Husband never said this.  Our schedule had been the same since 2009; the kids and I didn't get home until around 5:30pm.  The Ex even left a voicemail in 2010 saying that Husband had told her the kids get home at 5:30pm.  But now magically, Husband...