When I say no, it means keep asking.
The Ex asked if her parents could bring Daughter home last Wednesday and asked if she could pick up Son directly from school on Thursday. Initially we were going to tell her no for a couple of different reasons. The first reason was because she took over a month to decide what she was going to do for Daughter's tournament and still never really gave a committed answer. The second was because she was asking on Sunday and expecting an immediate answer. The third was because she's a dickhead and we're tired of doing her favors only to have her badmouth us to the kids and complaining about us "never working with her" whenever we do tell her no to something she wants. After thinking about it, we decided that we are better people than her and telling her "no" would really only make it harder on the kids. As a refresher, this is what The Ex asked: "Next week Thursday, October 29th, I pickup [Son]. I was wondering if someone could pick him u...