Things lately.
For Husband and myself, life has been amazingly calm since we got our final money from The Ex and we haven't had any contact with her. The only time she affects us is when she's messing with Son and/or Daughter's minds...I can't help myself, I get angry. They didn't ask for her to be their mother, and they don't deserve for her to be their mother. A couple of weeks after The Ex skipped out on Grandson's birthday party, Girlfriend told me that The Ex messaged Son saying that she was throwing a birthday party for her niece & nephew's daughters, and she wanted to know if Son & Girlfriend were going to come. Girlfriend said that Son pointed out that The Ex wouldn't even come to her own grandson's party, but was now throwing a party for two kids that weren't her grandkids; allegedly The Ex replied, "Wow." As in, "How dare you even be offended that I missed your son's party but am willing to host a party for two ...