It's All My Husband's Fault

  In early 2008, one of the kids brought home a folder from their school so we learned where they were attending.  Husband sent a letter to the school with a copy of the court agreement showing that he was supposed to be involved in the kids' schooling; Husband said he did not know where the kids were attending until just recently and would like to start receiving information about the kids' schooling - report cards, letters, etc.  A few days after Husband mailed the letter, The Ex left him a voicemail:      “[Husband], I just got a phone call from the principal at the school saying that you want paperwork from the kids. ( ...okay, and? )  I don’t understand how hard it was for you just to give me your address and zip code and everything, so I could do it. ( Because you've been living in New City for 6 months now.  The school should have had this information since Day 1 )  Principal actually laughed at it and said that that’s all you needed...

  So far, I've tried to keep the blog in chronological order.  I've left out certain things so give you a general idea of the insanity we have to deal with.  Now I'm just going to start posting things that happened during different periods.   The first year, I figured it was just typical baby mama drama; nothing out of the ordinary, nothing that was any more crazy than anything else that other people go through.  We didn't document a lot then, because what was the point?  The Ex was bitter, she was jealous and she was going to make our life difficult because of it.  Nothing was going to change, at least not from a legal standpoint.   One voicemail I particularly recall from 2006 was when The Ex tried calling Husband; I don't remember why exactly he didn't answer, either we were eating or he didn't have his phone with him.  When he listened to the voicemail, all he heard was, "F*cking [Husband] won't answer his f*cking phone.." while ...