It's All My Husband's Fault

  Yesterday, Husband sent a message to The Ex with an updated balance of what she owed him and asked her to please try to get caught up on the kids' medical bills.  She replied with, "Boo hoo, I'm not working, I had surgery, what are these bills for?"  Husband replied and explained how he reached said balance.   This morning: "You agreed to waive ALL past debts. ( Actually no, he didn't. ) Please review our agreement. ( Don't need to; I know what it says.  Perhaps you should review it. ) I'm sorry. ( Forrrr...?  I know you're not actually sorry for anything, but I still want to ask. ) Plus, I'm not paying any variable expenses per court order we agreed upon. ( 1. You are correct, you are not paying variable expenses.  2. Stop trying to sound smart because even if you disagreed but it was court ordered, you'd still have to do it. ) That order was agreed and signed by both of us in July of this year." ( Once again, The Ex is clai...

  Husband had sent a message to The Ex at the end of September; part of the message was to give her an update as to what she owes him for medical bills for both Son and Daughter.  The Ex read the message, replied to it but didn't say anything about the balance.   Husband sent another message Monday morning with another receipt for medical bills and gave her another updated balance.  Husband asked The Ex to please try to make a payment in the near future, because the court order was that the bills would be repaid in 30 days but the oldest bill was now 2 years old.  Husband stated he had applied a $1 payment from her in September and that the last payment he had gotten before that was in March.   Eight minutes later: ( This is astoundingly quick for someone who doesn't "have a proper phone" which makes it "very difficult to her respond to Husband's messages." ) "I haven't worked in a month.  ( Of course she hasn't.  She had a secure,...