It's All My Husband's Fault

  I can't remember off the top of my head how much detail I've gone into regarding The Ex's siblings and parents.  We used to get along very well with her oldest sister, the one who always said the kids were better off with us.  Then she got all mad at us for withholding the kids, quit talking to us, deleted us on Facebook, re-added me but we don't really talk the way we used to.  Previously, we would text each other or even get together and hang out at the kids' events ( Hers and ours ).   Saturday night, I get a text message from this sister after I haven't really spoken to her since December when we wished each other a merry Christmas.  The sister wants to know if we have the kids on June 8th.  I say yes, we do.  Sister asks, "Do u think they can come to [her son's] graduation party?"   Let me pause for a moment and explain this.  This woman posted on Facebook in March that she was looking for halls to rent for this party.  She...

  So after all the baloney with The Ex changing the date on the stipulation, we finally had court.  Our Attorney told me to email Attorney 4 and make a proposal in an attempt to settle this faster than having everyone testify.   Attorney 4 emails Our Attorney well after hours, says she is not going to communicate with me because "[Our Attorney] is the attorney of record; not her." ( I think Attorney 4 is beginning to get irritable because she feels very foolish knowing I understand her client's case better than either one of them does. )  Attorney 4 goes on to complain that Our Attorney sent a subpoena to The Ex's employer and that Attorney 4 was not given notice; Attorney 4 says she was never asked for updated paystubs and writes, "Had I been asked I would of provided them." ( That should read, "I would HAVE provided them," not "I would of provided them."  I cannot fathom how this woman earns the type of money that she does. )  Attorne...