"By court order..."

  The court order says that The Ex will get the kids on any days they have off of school; if these days land on Husband's weekend, then the two of them will switch weekends.  This upcoming weekend, Son has off of school on Friday but Daughter does not.  Two different schools, two different schedules.

  Husband sent a message to The Ex alllll the way back on January 7th explaining all of this, and asking if she would like to switch weekends or if she just wanted to leave the schedule as it currently was.  I have a screencap showing that this message was read by 9:39pm the same day it was sent.  The Ex did not reply.

  Husband sent another message to The Ex on January 15th saying that he had asked what she'd like to do about this weekend and since she had not responded, we would be leaving the schedule as it is.  Again, a screencap showing that this message was read by 6:44pm the same day it was sent. (This was the message blogged about last time.  This one is the message that The Ex got after she received the message...or something.)  The Ex acknowledged in a different message that she did receive this message, but she still didn't reply to this one.

  The Ex picked up the kids on Friday for her placement weekend.  Said nothing to Husband.

  Today at 11:16am:
"I do want to switch weekends. (I beg your pardon?!) I can pick [Son] up Thursday and I'll attend [Daughters] basketball game and pick her on Friday. ("...pick her on Friday." *sigh*) We can switch for the weekend of the 30th. (No, you can't because you will not be switching.)"
  Then at 11:19am:
"By court order I'll be picking up [Son] Thursday and [Daughter] after her game on Friday. (No, you won't.) Please send me the place and address were (*where) she'll be playing. (The schedule very clearly states it is a home game.) Thanks"

  Husband replies and says sorry, that won't work; she is required to respond to his messages in 48 hours, he gave her over a week to let him know what she wanted, she didn't reply until 12 days after he first posed the question and 4 days after he said they would not be switching.  Husband said we've already made plans due to her failure to follow the court order about communicating. (This was included because The Ex thinks she can throw around the term "court order" and Husband's knees will be shaking.  If she wants to file for contempt, let her; we've got her on contempt in more ways than one and on a repeated basis.)  Husband also asked her not to come to our home this week as it was not her placement time, and asked for a fourth time for her to provide her insurance information.

  And now we wait...

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