It's All My Husband's Fault

  For those of you who haven't gone through this entire page yet, I'm going to say this in the nicest way possible:  the thing that matters most to The Ex is money.  I do not mean this in a way that The Ex works very hard for it and acts frugally in order to retain her earnings; I mean this in the way that The Ex will lie, cheat and steal to get what she wants because she wants the best of everything and feels that she deserves it.  The Ex thinks you should give her money and pay her bills; if you ask her to take care of her children, then you're being greedy.  This blog outlines the numerous ways that The Ex wastes her money and then tells her kids that she can't afford to do anything for them.   If you read through the "Disorderly Conduct" blog post, you'll note that The Ex was fighting with Husband over money.  Husband gave her $700 to pay back what he owed to her dad.  The Ex said she wanted Husband to pay 100% of her rent that month; Husban...

  In mid-2011,  The Ex called 911 from someone else's number; she said there was someone ringing the bell looking for another woman.  The Ex said her husband was yelling with the other person and then closed the door.  This happened at 3am; she had placement of the kids at this time. ~   ~   ~   ~   ~   Two days after this, another report was generated.  Two people called the police around 7pm, saying they had witnessed a man in a dark car hit a mailbox, breaking the mailbox and damaging the side of his vehicle.  The male witness said the passenger side mirror was dangling from the car as it drove away; the male witness wrote down the license plate as he remembered it.   Almost three hours later, Boyfriend called the police to report damage to his vehicle. ( What a coincidence! )  The same officer was dispatched ( Seriously, the exact.  Same.  Officer.  New City has a population of over 60,000.  ...

  2010 was pretty quiet.  The Ex realized that we could access police records and any time she called, a report was generated.  Husband and The Ex were in the middle of fighting for custody of Son and Daughter; a police report was the last thing that The Ex needed popping up.   There was only one report from 2010 and it was in mid-January.  This was the night that Boyfriend called Husband, saying that The Ex was a "f*cking b*tch" who only cared about money and that Boyfriend was "tired of [The Ex's] sh*t."  Boyfriend told Husband that he wanted to leave The Ex but couldn't because she had told him if he left, he would never see their daughter again ( Really loving to use a child as a trap; I can see the two of them are in this for the long run.  Not to mention that this just proves how unstable their relationship is and how badly Son and Daughter did not need to be around this )  Boyfriend also said things had "happened" between him and The Ex b...