Police reports 2010
2010 was pretty quiet. The Ex realized that we could access police records and any time she called, a report was generated. Husband and The Ex were in the middle of fighting for custody of Son and Daughter; a police report was the last thing that The Ex needed popping up.
There was only one report from 2010 and it was in mid-January. This was the night that Boyfriend called Husband, saying that The Ex was a "f*cking b*tch" who only cared about money and that Boyfriend was "tired of [The Ex's] sh*t." Boyfriend told Husband that he wanted to leave The Ex but couldn't because she had told him if he left, he would never see their daughter again (Really loving to use a child as a trap; I can see the two of them are in this for the long run. Not to mention that this just proves how unstable their relationship is and how badly Son and Daughter did not need to be around this) Boyfriend also said things had "happened" between him and The Ex but that they did not call the police; Boyfriend said during one argument, The Ex had been choking him. Husband told him to call the police if something like that happened.
And Boyfriend did just that. Boyfriend told dispatch that he wasn't allowed to be around Son and Daughter, so he hadn't seen his own daughter all weekend. Boyfriend said he had called The Ex around 6:30pm and she asked him "Why are you calling me?" (Because Husband had picked up Son and Daughter at 6pm and you didn't come home with Boyfriend's child.) Boyfriend told dispatch he was not sure if The Ex was trying to keep his daughter from him. Dispatch sent an officer over, the officer couldn't get into the building, they closed the report.
That was the only report directly involving The Ex and/or Boyfriend for 2010. There was, however, another report involving a bunch of The Ex's family members.
In August 2010, The Ex's parents and one of The Ex's older sisters went to the Hometown police department. The Ex's dad said that his wife and daughter had just told him that some of the parents' checks had been taken without their permission; the daughter admitted to cashing some of the checks "not knowing" that her parents had not signed them and said that The Ex's younger sister had given her the checks. The Ex's dad said he didn't know how many checks were missing or how much money was taken out of his account. The Ex's dad was instructed to contact his bank to make a list of the checks and a statement for the checking account.
Eight days later, The Ex's parents returned to the Hometown police department. The Ex's dad said six checks had been stolen. The Ex's parents said the signatures on the checks were not theirs and that no one had permission to sign their names. The Ex's dad said had recently taken money out of his 401K and put it into their checking account; now he was getting notices from different collectors saying his checks were bouncing. The Ex's dad said he initially thought The Ex's mom was to blame (This is not that far-fetched of a theory. The Ex's mom has: lost a house to foreclosure, lost one truck to repossession, lost another truck due to flood damage which wasn't covered because she let the insurance lapse, been evicted from an apartment, and their current trailer home has a federal tax lien on it from the IRS) and said he didn't realize how big of a problem this was until his wife and daughter came to him and said the younger daughter had stolen the checks.
About 40 minutes later, The Ex's mom brought The Ex's younger sister (Who allegedly stole and forged the checks) to the Hometown police department. The younger sister said she knew she was there because "we took checks from my dad. We wrote them out and cashed them and spent the money." The younger sister explained that "we" was herself, the older sister, their brother, their brother's girlfriend and the girlfriend's mom.
The checks were written out as follows:
Check #1 - $750 to The Ex's younger sister. Out of this check, $100 was given to The Ex's brother, $100 to his girlfriend and $550 to the girlfriend's mom, who put some money on someone's jail account and spent the rest on "a little food and a lot of drugs." (So now they're involved with purchasing drugs)
Check #2 - $2,500 to The Ex's brother's girlfriend's mom. The younger sister said $200 was paid toward a loan and the rest was used to purchase cocaine (Exactly how much cocaine can you buy with $2,300???) and it was used by herself, her brother, his girlfriend and the girlfriend's mom (Now they're involved with abusing drugs. The Ex lets these people babysit for Son, Daughter and her two kids with Boyfriend. The Ex sees no problem with this. These people have now spent $2,850 on drugs)
Check #3 - $2,500 to The Ex's younger sister. The sister said $1,000 was frozen by the bank and said she gave the remaining $1,500 to the girlfriend's mom, who used it to buy more cocaine. The sister said she and the girlfriend's mom were "consuming three eight-ball containers of cocaine a night." (I had to Google this because I know absolutely nothing about drugs. This is a LOT of cocaine to be taking every night, at least in my opinion. As of right now, she's admitted to spending $4,350 on drugs)
Check #4 - $400 to unknown as of the date of the report. The sister said this was spent on cocaine and marijuana (Because we wouldn't want to limit ourselves to only one drug. We're up to $4,750)
Check #5 - $600 to The Ex's older sister. The younger sister said this was spent on cocaine, marijuana, cigarettes and alcohol ($5,350)
Check #6 - $2,500 to The Ex's older sister. The younger sister said this was spent on gas, cocaine, marijuana and cigarettes; she said the older sister and her boyfriend had purchased rock cocaine (Give or take, a total of $7,850 on drugs and alcohol. If they're all this heavily into it, you begin to wonder if The Ex has any involvement with any of this)
The younger sister admitted she did not have permission to take the checks and was first introduced to cocaine two or three years ago by the girlfriend's mom while they were working at a daycare. (I'm sure there are some of you out there who are skeptical about the validity of this story. I still have a hard time wrapping my head around this myself. If you really want, I'll scan and upload the reports with names and addresses blocked out) The sister said she was best friends with the girlfriend's mom and has been on and off cocaine since then, but would not classify herself as an addict (This is where you and I differ. Using cocaine for years makes you an addict.) and felt she could quit at anytime (But you choose not to, because being an unemployed loser who lives with your parents and steals their money to snort up your nose is a much better life to choose) The sister said that her brother and the girlfriend's mom were upset with her because she said she was going to tell the police the truth; the girlfriend's mom was already on probation and the brother said he would not talk to her anymore. The younger sister was asked what she thought should happen to her in regards to this case; she said she would prefer her father not pressing charges but she knew she had done wrong. (It's not just The Ex that thinks like this, it's the entire family. "I can do whatever I want and there should never be any consequences for my actions")
The officer then met with the girlfriend's mom, who said she thought that The Ex's mom had signed the checks and did not know that The Ex's younger sister had forged them (Right, because The Ex's parents are going to just give you a $2,500 check for no reason) The girlfriend's mom admitted that she spent $150 on marijuana, and admitted to using cocaine but denied any of the stolen money she had received had been used to buy cocaine. She said someone else bought cocaine but she was not going to reveal who they had bought it from. The officer told her he knew she was lying, she knew that the checks had been stolen. The girlfriend's mom said she had not told anyone to take the checks; she admitted being there while the checks were taken but said she had told the younger sister not to take them. The girlfriend's mom then admitted to buying a lot of cocaine but did not know how much The Ex's younger sister was paying for it. The girlfriend's mom was asked what she thought should happen to her in regards to this case; she replied, "I imagine I will be in jail for some more time because of her f*cking dumb ass." (Never mind that she cashed the check and took the money and smoked/snorted it away. This is apparently not her fault, either)
The officer then interviewed The Ex's older sister; she admitted to cashing the $400 check, then going with the younger sister to pick up cocaine. A few days later, she said she cashed the $600 check and gave the money to the younger sister; she said a couple hours later she went along with the younger sister to pick up drugs, and admitted to doing cocaine with her. She said later she cashed the $2,500 check and gave all of it to the younger sister; she said she was given $550 of that money, spent some of it and put the rest in savings. She said a few days later, she got a letter saying her account was frozen; she talked to their mom and learned that their mom had not written the checks (Highly doubtful this was the first she heard of it) The Ex's mom tried calling the bank and claiming that she had written the checks so no one would be in trouble (That summarizes their entire family in one sentence. If your children stole $8,450 from you, would you be on the phone with the bank, lying to keep them out of trouble???) The Ex's mom and older sister then went and told The Ex's dad what was going on. The older sister said that the younger sister had taken $500 and put it on someone's jail account, and then spent the rest of the money on cocaine. The older admitted to knowing the girlfriend's mom when she also worked at the daycare (Now we have three coke heads working at a daycare. If that doesn't turn your stomach, I'm not sure what will) The older sister said $200 of the $400 check was spent on cocaine and admitted to receiving $50 from that same check. The older sister said that the younger sister was unreponsible ("Irresponsible" is the word you're looking for) and wouldn't trust her enough to be alone in her apartment (This is coming from the sister who already had a conviction for possession of an illegally obtained prescription drug and obstructing an officer; she had also been charged with obtaining a prescription drug by fraud and possession of narcotic drugs, but those were both dismissed by the prosecutor.)
The officer then interviewed the brother's girlfriend, who said she knew this was about the $100 that the sister had given them. She said that the sister gives the brother money sometimes (From where?? She has no job) She said that the younger sister had said she was going to "steal money" and asked the brother to be a lookout for her, but he had told her no. She said her mom was not there while the checks were being stolen. The officer told her that her mom already admitted to being there when the checks were stolen; she then changed her story to say that her mom "could have been there" but she didn't remember. The officer asked if the younger sister had any type of job; she laughed and said the younger sister was lazy and was not trustworthy (But you accepted money from her because she's not trustworthy?) She then admitted to using drugs with the younger sister in the past but not around the time that the checks were forged. She said the last time they had used drugs was June 2010 (Wow, an entire 2 months.) and said they stopped using because they didn't have any more money (So you quit doing drugs - not to turn your life around, but because you ran out of cash. Now you have access to $8,450 but we're supposed to believe you stayed clean. Ooookaaaay...)
The officer then met with The Ex's brother. He said he did not know his sister had taken checks from their parents and had found out when they did. Then he said he had tried talking the younger sister out of taking the checks and she had wanted to steal from their parents; he was "unsure" if any other people were present during that conversation (Even though the younger sister and the girlfriend's mom both told the cop that the brother and the girlfriend were there for the conversation) The brother denied being asked to get their mom's purse for the younger sister but admitted she gave him $100. The officer asked if the younger sister normally gave him money; he said no, it was "out of the blue." (Even though his girlfriend just got done telling the officer that sometimes the younger sister gives the brother money) He said he used to trust his sister but not anymore, and that he thought she had a drug problem. He said he thought something should happen to the younger sister in this case, but nothing should happen to him. (Because this isn't his fault, either! None of these people are to blame! What are you thinking, silly policeman?)
The end result was that The Ex's older sister and the girlfriend's mom were found guilty of theft of movable property over $2,500. The older sister was given 2 years probation; the girlfriend's mom was given 1 year probation.
The younger sister was found guilty of the same in addition to a felony charge of forgery. She was sentenced to 30 days in jail followed by 2 years probation. She served her 30-day sentence, posted on Facebook about how she was so glad to be free and was turning her life around.
Within 9 days of being released, she was back in jail. The Ex's dad told us this was because she had gone to the store with a friend and the friend stole her money so she called the police; he said that since she was on probation, she "wasn't supposed to have police contact so they arrested her." (I thought this sounded bogus. That's because it was.) We later found out that the sister's "friend" was a police informant, who was with the younger sister when she was caught on camera selling drugs inside of the store. The sister was arrested for violating her probation.
A few weeks after being put back in jail, the younger sister requested that she be placed on a work-release program. The court granted her request (Why is completely beyond me, but they did) only for "medically necessary appointments." In under two weeks, she lost her work-release privilege. Three days later, she sent another request which was denied "due to prior positive test result for illegal drugs." (So she got a slap on the hand with her 30-day sentence for stealing $8,450 from her parents; screwed that up by selling drugs. Got work release privileges; screwed that up by getting high.) For the duration of her sentence, she made three more requests for work release and one request for early release; all of her requests were denied. (Even after all of this, The Ex still leaves all of her kids alone with her family members. Son and Daughter were under the impression that their aunt was in jail for stealing a purse; she did steal a purse, but that happened much later and will be blogged about later on)
There was only one report from 2010 and it was in mid-January. This was the night that Boyfriend called Husband, saying that The Ex was a "f*cking b*tch" who only cared about money and that Boyfriend was "tired of [The Ex's] sh*t." Boyfriend told Husband that he wanted to leave The Ex but couldn't because she had told him if he left, he would never see their daughter again (Really loving to use a child as a trap; I can see the two of them are in this for the long run. Not to mention that this just proves how unstable their relationship is and how badly Son and Daughter did not need to be around this) Boyfriend also said things had "happened" between him and The Ex but that they did not call the police; Boyfriend said during one argument, The Ex had been choking him. Husband told him to call the police if something like that happened.
And Boyfriend did just that. Boyfriend told dispatch that he wasn't allowed to be around Son and Daughter, so he hadn't seen his own daughter all weekend. Boyfriend said he had called The Ex around 6:30pm and she asked him "Why are you calling me?" (Because Husband had picked up Son and Daughter at 6pm and you didn't come home with Boyfriend's child.) Boyfriend told dispatch he was not sure if The Ex was trying to keep his daughter from him. Dispatch sent an officer over, the officer couldn't get into the building, they closed the report.
That was the only report directly involving The Ex and/or Boyfriend for 2010. There was, however, another report involving a bunch of The Ex's family members.
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Eight days later, The Ex's parents returned to the Hometown police department. The Ex's dad said six checks had been stolen. The Ex's parents said the signatures on the checks were not theirs and that no one had permission to sign their names. The Ex's dad said had recently taken money out of his 401K and put it into their checking account; now he was getting notices from different collectors saying his checks were bouncing. The Ex's dad said he initially thought The Ex's mom was to blame (This is not that far-fetched of a theory. The Ex's mom has: lost a house to foreclosure, lost one truck to repossession, lost another truck due to flood damage which wasn't covered because she let the insurance lapse, been evicted from an apartment, and their current trailer home has a federal tax lien on it from the IRS) and said he didn't realize how big of a problem this was until his wife and daughter came to him and said the younger daughter had stolen the checks.
About 40 minutes later, The Ex's mom brought The Ex's younger sister (Who allegedly stole and forged the checks) to the Hometown police department. The younger sister said she knew she was there because "we took checks from my dad. We wrote them out and cashed them and spent the money." The younger sister explained that "we" was herself, the older sister, their brother, their brother's girlfriend and the girlfriend's mom.
The checks were written out as follows:
Check #1 - $750 to The Ex's younger sister. Out of this check, $100 was given to The Ex's brother, $100 to his girlfriend and $550 to the girlfriend's mom, who put some money on someone's jail account and spent the rest on "a little food and a lot of drugs." (So now they're involved with purchasing drugs)
Check #2 - $2,500 to The Ex's brother's girlfriend's mom. The younger sister said $200 was paid toward a loan and the rest was used to purchase cocaine (Exactly how much cocaine can you buy with $2,300???) and it was used by herself, her brother, his girlfriend and the girlfriend's mom (Now they're involved with abusing drugs. The Ex lets these people babysit for Son, Daughter and her two kids with Boyfriend. The Ex sees no problem with this. These people have now spent $2,850 on drugs)
Check #3 - $2,500 to The Ex's younger sister. The sister said $1,000 was frozen by the bank and said she gave the remaining $1,500 to the girlfriend's mom, who used it to buy more cocaine. The sister said she and the girlfriend's mom were "consuming three eight-ball containers of cocaine a night." (I had to Google this because I know absolutely nothing about drugs. This is a LOT of cocaine to be taking every night, at least in my opinion. As of right now, she's admitted to spending $4,350 on drugs)
Check #4 - $400 to unknown as of the date of the report. The sister said this was spent on cocaine and marijuana (Because we wouldn't want to limit ourselves to only one drug. We're up to $4,750)
Check #5 - $600 to The Ex's older sister. The younger sister said this was spent on cocaine, marijuana, cigarettes and alcohol ($5,350)
Check #6 - $2,500 to The Ex's older sister. The younger sister said this was spent on gas, cocaine, marijuana and cigarettes; she said the older sister and her boyfriend had purchased rock cocaine (Give or take, a total of $7,850 on drugs and alcohol. If they're all this heavily into it, you begin to wonder if The Ex has any involvement with any of this)
The younger sister admitted she did not have permission to take the checks and was first introduced to cocaine two or three years ago by the girlfriend's mom while they were working at a daycare. (I'm sure there are some of you out there who are skeptical about the validity of this story. I still have a hard time wrapping my head around this myself. If you really want, I'll scan and upload the reports with names and addresses blocked out) The sister said she was best friends with the girlfriend's mom and has been on and off cocaine since then, but would not classify herself as an addict (This is where you and I differ. Using cocaine for years makes you an addict.) and felt she could quit at anytime (But you choose not to, because being an unemployed loser who lives with your parents and steals their money to snort up your nose is a much better life to choose) The sister said that her brother and the girlfriend's mom were upset with her because she said she was going to tell the police the truth; the girlfriend's mom was already on probation and the brother said he would not talk to her anymore. The younger sister was asked what she thought should happen to her in regards to this case; she said she would prefer her father not pressing charges but she knew she had done wrong. (It's not just The Ex that thinks like this, it's the entire family. "I can do whatever I want and there should never be any consequences for my actions")
The officer then met with the girlfriend's mom, who said she thought that The Ex's mom had signed the checks and did not know that The Ex's younger sister had forged them (Right, because The Ex's parents are going to just give you a $2,500 check for no reason) The girlfriend's mom admitted that she spent $150 on marijuana, and admitted to using cocaine but denied any of the stolen money she had received had been used to buy cocaine. She said someone else bought cocaine but she was not going to reveal who they had bought it from. The officer told her he knew she was lying, she knew that the checks had been stolen. The girlfriend's mom said she had not told anyone to take the checks; she admitted being there while the checks were taken but said she had told the younger sister not to take them. The girlfriend's mom then admitted to buying a lot of cocaine but did not know how much The Ex's younger sister was paying for it. The girlfriend's mom was asked what she thought should happen to her in regards to this case; she replied, "I imagine I will be in jail for some more time because of her f*cking dumb ass." (Never mind that she cashed the check and took the money and smoked/snorted it away. This is apparently not her fault, either)
The officer then interviewed The Ex's older sister; she admitted to cashing the $400 check, then going with the younger sister to pick up cocaine. A few days later, she said she cashed the $600 check and gave the money to the younger sister; she said a couple hours later she went along with the younger sister to pick up drugs, and admitted to doing cocaine with her. She said later she cashed the $2,500 check and gave all of it to the younger sister; she said she was given $550 of that money, spent some of it and put the rest in savings. She said a few days later, she got a letter saying her account was frozen; she talked to their mom and learned that their mom had not written the checks (Highly doubtful this was the first she heard of it) The Ex's mom tried calling the bank and claiming that she had written the checks so no one would be in trouble (That summarizes their entire family in one sentence. If your children stole $8,450 from you, would you be on the phone with the bank, lying to keep them out of trouble???) The Ex's mom and older sister then went and told The Ex's dad what was going on. The older sister said that the younger sister had taken $500 and put it on someone's jail account, and then spent the rest of the money on cocaine. The older admitted to knowing the girlfriend's mom when she also worked at the daycare (Now we have three coke heads working at a daycare. If that doesn't turn your stomach, I'm not sure what will) The older sister said $200 of the $400 check was spent on cocaine and admitted to receiving $50 from that same check. The older sister said that the younger sister was unreponsible ("Irresponsible" is the word you're looking for) and wouldn't trust her enough to be alone in her apartment (This is coming from the sister who already had a conviction for possession of an illegally obtained prescription drug and obstructing an officer; she had also been charged with obtaining a prescription drug by fraud and possession of narcotic drugs, but those were both dismissed by the prosecutor.)
The officer then interviewed the brother's girlfriend, who said she knew this was about the $100 that the sister had given them. She said that the sister gives the brother money sometimes (From where?? She has no job) She said that the younger sister had said she was going to "steal money" and asked the brother to be a lookout for her, but he had told her no. She said her mom was not there while the checks were being stolen. The officer told her that her mom already admitted to being there when the checks were stolen; she then changed her story to say that her mom "could have been there" but she didn't remember. The officer asked if the younger sister had any type of job; she laughed and said the younger sister was lazy and was not trustworthy (But you accepted money from her because she's not trustworthy?) She then admitted to using drugs with the younger sister in the past but not around the time that the checks were forged. She said the last time they had used drugs was June 2010 (Wow, an entire 2 months.) and said they stopped using because they didn't have any more money (So you quit doing drugs - not to turn your life around, but because you ran out of cash. Now you have access to $8,450 but we're supposed to believe you stayed clean. Ooookaaaay...)
The officer then met with The Ex's brother. He said he did not know his sister had taken checks from their parents and had found out when they did. Then he said he had tried talking the younger sister out of taking the checks and she had wanted to steal from their parents; he was "unsure" if any other people were present during that conversation (Even though the younger sister and the girlfriend's mom both told the cop that the brother and the girlfriend were there for the conversation) The brother denied being asked to get their mom's purse for the younger sister but admitted she gave him $100. The officer asked if the younger sister normally gave him money; he said no, it was "out of the blue." (Even though his girlfriend just got done telling the officer that sometimes the younger sister gives the brother money) He said he used to trust his sister but not anymore, and that he thought she had a drug problem. He said he thought something should happen to the younger sister in this case, but nothing should happen to him. (Because this isn't his fault, either! None of these people are to blame! What are you thinking, silly policeman?)
The end result was that The Ex's older sister and the girlfriend's mom were found guilty of theft of movable property over $2,500. The older sister was given 2 years probation; the girlfriend's mom was given 1 year probation.
The younger sister was found guilty of the same in addition to a felony charge of forgery. She was sentenced to 30 days in jail followed by 2 years probation. She served her 30-day sentence, posted on Facebook about how she was so glad to be free and was turning her life around.
Within 9 days of being released, she was back in jail. The Ex's dad told us this was because she had gone to the store with a friend and the friend stole her money so she called the police; he said that since she was on probation, she "wasn't supposed to have police contact so they arrested her." (I thought this sounded bogus. That's because it was.) We later found out that the sister's "friend" was a police informant, who was with the younger sister when she was caught on camera selling drugs inside of the store. The sister was arrested for violating her probation.
A few weeks after being put back in jail, the younger sister requested that she be placed on a work-release program. The court granted her request (Why is completely beyond me, but they did) only for "medically necessary appointments." In under two weeks, she lost her work-release privilege. Three days later, she sent another request which was denied "due to prior positive test result for illegal drugs." (So she got a slap on the hand with her 30-day sentence for stealing $8,450 from her parents; screwed that up by selling drugs. Got work release privileges; screwed that up by getting high.) For the duration of her sentence, she made three more requests for work release and one request for early release; all of her requests were denied. (Even after all of this, The Ex still leaves all of her kids alone with her family members. Son and Daughter were under the impression that their aunt was in jail for stealing a purse; she did steal a purse, but that happened much later and will be blogged about later on)
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