It's All My Husband's Fault

  Just found out that Boyfriend's younger brother get arrested about three weeks ago.  He's being charged with battery, disorderly conduct and possession of cocaine.  At some point, he was transferred from the county jail into immigration custody, but has since been released.  About 6-7 years ago, this brother lived with Boyfriend, The Ex, Son and Daughter.   We also learned that Boyfriend is, in fact, getting released for work/child care privileges.  He is clearly violating the terms of this, because if he's being released for child care then there are not to be any other adults in the home while he is "babysitting" his own children.  He and The Ex are in the house together after she gets finished with work; Daughter made a comment to someone about The Ex having to take Boyfriend to "work" at 8pm ( The Ex gets done with work between 1:30-3:30pm, depending on the workload.  There is no reason Boyfriend should be "babysitting" until 8pm. ) ...

  Remember last week when I said it had been quiet and I was enjoying it?  There was no arguing, things were peaceful, we could relax and enjoy life?   Yup...I spoke too soon.   Let's rewind a few days before I jinxed us.  The Ex's dad bought Son a new video game just before dropping the kids off at our house.  Husband was taking them back to The Ex's on Monday and Son got upset because he had not brought his new game with him, since he didn't realize when they left that they weren't coming back home before heading to New City.   Saturday afternoon, we were visiting a friend in the hospital when Son called Husband.  Son asked if he could pick up his game.  Husband said no, not when we weren't home.  Son asked if he could use the spare key to go get the game.  Husband said he wasn't sure where the spare was, but he didn't want the house being opened while we were not there.  Son was irritated by this but too bad - The Ex i...