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  Just found out that Boyfriend's younger brother get arrested about three weeks ago.  He's being charged with battery, disorderly conduct and possession of cocaine.  At some point, he was transferred from the county jail into immigration custody, but has since been released.  About 6-7 years ago, this brother lived with Boyfriend, The Ex, Son and Daughter.

  We also learned that Boyfriend is, in fact, getting released for work/child care privileges.  He is clearly violating the terms of this, because if he's being released for child care then there are not to be any other adults in the home while he is "babysitting" his own children.  He and The Ex are in the house together after she gets finished with work; Daughter made a comment to someone about The Ex having to take Boyfriend to "work" at 8pm (The Ex gets done with work between 1:30-3:30pm, depending on the workload.  There is no reason Boyfriend should be "babysitting" until 8pm.)

  Additionally, Daughter told another friend of hers that she has to wake up each day to sit in the living room and listen for her brother after The Ex goes to work (The younger child of The Ex & Boyfriend).  Daughter isn't even 12 years old yet, and is required to wake up at 4am just in case her youngest sibling wakes up.  So now I pose the question:  if Boyfriend is being released for childcare, where is he at 4am?  Why isn't Boyfriend the one waking up at 4am just in case his son wakes up?

  Yet in all of this, The Ex honestly doesn't see what is wrong with her lifestyle, her family or the people she consciously and continually chooses to associate with.

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