It's All My Husband's Fault

  Ned has very foolishly asked The Ex to marry him.   I'm predicting that within the next 2 years, she will convince him to adopt the two kids she had with Boyfriend.  Then when she leaves him, she can still collect child support.   It's just a constant circus, I swear...

  For those of you who don't remember or are just beginning this blog, The Ex got two cats after she and Husband split up; this was sometime around 2005-2006.  She took the cats with her when she relocated from Hometown to New City when she moved in with Boyfriend in 2007.   In 2010, Son told us that The Ex was getting rid of the cats because she was spending "way too much money on them every month. ( At that time, she still had her van which had a monthly payment of $582.  But she told the kids she was getting rid of the cats because that's an expense she can't afford. )  Shortly after this was announced, The Ex had laser eye surgery which she told Husband cost her $3,700. ( But again, the cats are costing too much money. )  Somewhere along the line, the cats ended up with one of The Ex's cousins.   Within a year or two, Son commented that he wasn't happy with The Ex's cousin.  I asked what was wrong; Son said that the cousin was only suppose...

  Husband sent a message yesterday about our first summer week with the kids.  He said that our return flight got pushed and since we wouldn't get home until late on the day that The Ex was supposed to pick up the kids, he asked if she wanted to move the whole schedule ahead one day.   Shockingly, The Ex logged into 2houses and replied today: "Actuly this Will work out better. ( Exactly how it was written. ) Have a fun and relaxing time!!!"( I will, now that we have cameras on our house and will document if your crazy ass tries to pull anything while we're gone...oh, I'm sorry.  I meant to write "Thanks." )   So three minutes after her "nice" message, she responded to the message Husband sent last week about Son's wisdom teeth removal: "The only message I received was that you cancelled the appointment. ( Last week, she asked if Son was still getting his teeth pulled and if he wasn't, she wanted to know why Husband hadn't tol...

  You guys...this was probably the craziest Father's Day that I've spent with Husband to date.  This story is going to jump around a bit because I'm going to save the best part for the last, rather than going in chronological order.   Jumping back to Friday night, The Ex shared a post on Facebook about disciplining your kids and how people don't and that's what's wrong with this country.  Along with the post, she wrote: "So true... I'm glad my kids are very well behaved. ( I think you mean Son and Daughter; they both say that our youngest two at their worst are nothing compared to The Ex's youngest two. ) I instil ( Supposed to be two Ls there, honey. ) respect into them ( ...I beg your f*cking pardon?! ) and by doing that they are respected back greatly by many. And YES, my kids still love me even though there's time's of being firm" ( If you have to announce to people that your kids "still love you," then other people are...

  We check on a daily basis so that we can document that The Ex is not following the court order about communication.  Last night, it was still showing that her last login was on May 29th.  This means she had gone fifteen days without checking if there was anything going on with the kids, if Husband needed anything from her, if there was something to discuss, etc.   Fifteen days.   This morning, Husband magically got an email at 9:37am: "It says here that you deleted [Son' s] wisdom teeth on June 11th. ( Well, that didn't happen because it's physically impossible to delete teeth.  She got both an email and a notification from 2houses three days ago that read, "[Husband] removed the event 'Wisdom tooth removal' for [Son] from the agenda."   Three .   Days .   Ago . )  Is he not having them removed??? ( Yes, he is.  The oral surgeon that we were going to take Son to has a woman working in his office who is illegally billing patie...

  Back on Mother's Day weekend, The Ex was swinging her crazy around like her life depended on it.  Earlier in the day, The Ex called Son and said she had found a cigarette by the TV in the room where he sleeps at Ned's house. ( I hesitate to say "bedroom" because Daughter said that she and Son sleep in the basement at Ned's house; Daughter and her younger sister share a bedroom that Ned constructed, and Son sleeps in the general basement area.  Daughter said that Son does not have any walls where he sleeps; it's just an open area. )  The Ex asked if he was smoking; Son said no.  The Ex said she was upset and hurt, and wanted to know why it was downstairs.  Son repeated that he was not smoking.  The Ex said that they could talk later.  A little while after this, Ned texted Daughter accusing her of "ditching her mom on Mother's Day" and asked what was so important that she couldn't come that weekend.  Daughter asked what he was talking about...