She's just the worst.
The Ex must really be mad at Son. Even though their defective relationship is almost completely her fault, she will never admit to that and just continue to blame Son, Husband, me, or anyone else as long as it is not herself. She's posted things to Facebook lately which I'm pretty sure are intended to hurt Son's feelings.
Yesterday, she shared a post that read:
"Daughters are a blessing, especially mine!"
That could be waved off; posting that she loves her daughters doesn't mean that she doesn't love Son.
However, a little over a week before that post she shared one that read:
"I always need my daughter no matter what age I am. She has made me laugh, made me proud, made me cry, seen me cry, hugged me tight, seen me fail, cheered me up, kept me on my toes and has driven me crazy at times... But my daughter is a promise that I will have a friend forever."
Less than two weeks before that, she tagged Son in a post she shared which read:
"Just because she's your mom and she's going to love you forever, no matter what - you can't treat her just any old way and think it doesn't matter. Don't treat the person who loves you the most... the worst. Don't take her for granted. She may not let you see it, but your shortness, impatience and harsh words make her steal away to a quiet place and cry. Her heart hurts to understand why you seem angry with her. She will not always agree with you, but she will always love you. And it doesn't matter how old you are, or how old she is, treasure your mom. You'll never have another one."
And finally, the day before that she shared a post that read:
"Because He's Your Son
One day as you're brushing the hair out of your little boy's eyes or wiping the jelly off his sticky fingers, he looks up and gives you a smile that lights him up from the inside out, and you think to yourself... "It doesn't get any better than this." But it does... Because he grows up and becomes a good man and a good friend... and his smile still lights up your world."
Sweet, isn't it? The Ex opted to write only her youngest son's name when she shared this, completely ignoring Son altogether.
The Ex also posted about 4-5 things which she tagged Daughter in...cute little things on Amazon, hoodies with funny quotes, or saying about moms/daughters. It's very obvious that Son has become The Ex's new target and she's trying to pretend she has a wonderful relationship with Daughter just to spite him. It's actually rather sickening to watch the "hoovering" in their relationship and being completely helpless to stop it. (If you don't know what I'm talking about, search "narcissist hoovering" and you'll find a ton of info on it. A recent example is The Ex screaming at Daughter not to come to her brother's birthday party and telling her that it's her fault she's missed family events, only to text her four days later saying, "Miss you so much...I need your magic touch sweetie. All I want to do is cry.")
These poor kids don't deserve her for a mother.
Yesterday, she shared a post that read:
"Daughters are a blessing, especially mine!"
That could be waved off; posting that she loves her daughters doesn't mean that she doesn't love Son.
However, a little over a week before that post she shared one that read:
"I always need my daughter no matter what age I am. She has made me laugh, made me proud, made me cry, seen me cry, hugged me tight, seen me fail, cheered me up, kept me on my toes and has driven me crazy at times... But my daughter is a promise that I will have a friend forever."
Less than two weeks before that, she tagged Son in a post she shared which read:
"Just because she's your mom and she's going to love you forever, no matter what - you can't treat her just any old way and think it doesn't matter. Don't treat the person who loves you the most... the worst. Don't take her for granted. She may not let you see it, but your shortness, impatience and harsh words make her steal away to a quiet place and cry. Her heart hurts to understand why you seem angry with her. She will not always agree with you, but she will always love you. And it doesn't matter how old you are, or how old she is, treasure your mom. You'll never have another one."
And finally, the day before that she shared a post that read:
"Because He's Your Son
One day as you're brushing the hair out of your little boy's eyes or wiping the jelly off his sticky fingers, he looks up and gives you a smile that lights him up from the inside out, and you think to yourself... "It doesn't get any better than this." But it does... Because he grows up and becomes a good man and a good friend... and his smile still lights up your world."
Sweet, isn't it? The Ex opted to write only her youngest son's name when she shared this, completely ignoring Son altogether.
The Ex also posted about 4-5 things which she tagged Daughter in...cute little things on Amazon, hoodies with funny quotes, or saying about moms/daughters. It's very obvious that Son has become The Ex's new target and she's trying to pretend she has a wonderful relationship with Daughter just to spite him. It's actually rather sickening to watch the "hoovering" in their relationship and being completely helpless to stop it. (If you don't know what I'm talking about, search "narcissist hoovering" and you'll find a ton of info on it. A recent example is The Ex screaming at Daughter not to come to her brother's birthday party and telling her that it's her fault she's missed family events, only to text her four days later saying, "Miss you so much...I need your magic touch sweetie. All I want to do is cry.")
These poor kids don't deserve her for a mother.
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