Omg, I'm gonna throw up...

  I've often felt that The Ex has very blurred lines when it comes to sexuality, particularly with people in her family.  Husband told me a long time ago that he found out after they had gotten married and had both of the kids that on more than one occasion, The Ex had slept with her first cousin whom she is related to by blood.  The Ex made a comment to Son when he was 14 years old about his underwear and then did a weird cat-call/growl thing.  A couple years ago, The Ex was posting pictures of Daughter's thong underwear on Facebook; she also made a comment about "ripping off Son's penis" because she found a cigarette butt and she was mad at him for it.  Back before she left Boyfriend, The Ex was telling the kids that she wanted to go on a sleigh ride with them and that she thought it would be "romantic." (No joke - she was planning a "romantic" memory with her kids.)

  But this, you guys.  This one is just all kinds of no.

  The Ex's dad recently had his birthday.  The Ex posted a picture of him on Facebook and tagged her mom, Ned, Son, Girlfriend, and Daughter in the post where she wrote:
"Happy Birthday Dad! Can you believe your 69!!! Guess we know what you and mom will b doing 😉!!!! You dirty man you!!!!
ANYWAYS... can't wait till dinner tonight. Prime Rib and Shrimp! Always for my Daddy! Love You Lots❤"

  Listen, I have a really good relationship with my dad.  I don't think I'd ever in my life post online referencing him having any type of sexual relations with my mother.  And even if I did, I don't think I could call him "Daddy" in that same post without feeling weird.  And even if I did, I wouldn't tag my damn husband and kids and my kid's significant other in the post.

  Everything about her just grosses me out.

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