The calendar, you guys!!!!
The week started with The Ex sending angry texts to Husband, yelling about him not answering his phone or returning her calls even though she hasn't called him for over a month. That was followed by another message on 2houses wherein The Ex replied that she "knew [Husband] would throw a fit" in response to him asking one single question. To summarize, Husband received on Monday a total of five text messages, one email and four messages on 2houses; the majority of them were hostile and/or accusatory.
Tuesday afternoon:
"Hi. You said you fixed/updated the Memorial weekend. (Actually, what he said was the calendar changed when the site updated and that it should be fixed as of the time he sent the reply message.) It is still not fixed. (Wait until you hear why!) Pick up that weekend should be Monday at 5:30pm" (That's her reason. The exchange time is not listed so the calendar is "still not fixed.")
The calendar primarily shows where the kids will be spending the night; it rarely reflects the exchange time because a)exchange time has been 5:30pm since February of 2014, and b)you have to manually enter the time and location for every exchange, which gets exhausting. There are four placement exchanges this month and not a single one of them has the exchange time listed. Even so, she found it necessary to send a message to Husband telling him that the calendar is "still not fixed." Like she's been waiting allll year for him to fix this calendar but he's just ignoring her.
Husband got out of work, read the message, and replied that the calendar didn't read 5:30pm on the Friday before Memorial Day either (As in, "Why are you complaining about Monday but have nothing to say about Friday? Oh, because you're just nitpicking and trying to find anything at all to blame me for right now."); he said they're both aware of what time the placement exchanges are to take place, and if she wanted to update the calendar to show the exact times, she has the ability to do so. (But why should she have to do anything? It's not like they're her kids. Oh, wait...) Husband also sent another message asking her to please let him know where she was working, what her hours are and if she'll have insurance for the kids.
And with that, The Ex fell silent.
Tuesday afternoon:
"Hi. You said you fixed/updated the Memorial weekend. (Actually, what he said was the calendar changed when the site updated and that it should be fixed as of the time he sent the reply message.) It is still not fixed. (Wait until you hear why!) Pick up that weekend should be Monday at 5:30pm" (That's her reason. The exchange time is not listed so the calendar is "still not fixed.")
The calendar primarily shows where the kids will be spending the night; it rarely reflects the exchange time because a)exchange time has been 5:30pm since February of 2014, and b)you have to manually enter the time and location for every exchange, which gets exhausting. There are four placement exchanges this month and not a single one of them has the exchange time listed. Even so, she found it necessary to send a message to Husband telling him that the calendar is "still not fixed." Like she's been waiting allll year for him to fix this calendar but he's just ignoring her.
Husband got out of work, read the message, and replied that the calendar didn't read 5:30pm on the Friday before Memorial Day either (As in, "Why are you complaining about Monday but have nothing to say about Friday? Oh, because you're just nitpicking and trying to find anything at all to blame me for right now."); he said they're both aware of what time the placement exchanges are to take place, and if she wanted to update the calendar to show the exact times, she has the ability to do so. (But why should she have to do anything? It's not like they're her kids. Oh, wait...) Husband also sent another message asking her to please let him know where she was working, what her hours are and if she'll have insurance for the kids.
And with that, The Ex fell silent.
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