She replied but didn't answer.

  I'm going to type out a timeline so you can really grasp just how stupid this woman is.

  September 22nd, 2015

  Husband informed The Ex that Daughter had a tournament this Saturday, October 24th.  Husband said that would be The Ex's weekend, and asked if she was going to leave Daughter here all weekend or if she wanted to switch weekends.  This message was never answered.

  September 28th, 2015

  Husband sends another message reminding The Ex about Daughter's tournament and said she also had another event on Sunday, October 25th.  Husband says that either a)The Ex can pick up both kids on Friday and bring Daughter to all of her events, b)The Ex can pick up only Son on Friday and leave Daughter here, or c)they can switch the weekend of October 24th with the weekend of November 7th.

  October 2nd, 2015

  The Ex finally replies at 10:30pm and asks if they switch weekends, if she'll "get the next 2 weekends including Halloween weekend and the weekend after that?"

  October 3rd, 2015

  Husband replies and explains, line by line, what the weekend placement will be if they switch.

  October 6th, 2015

  Husband sends another message about another tournament on October 10th.  We still don't have an answer about the tournament on October 24th.

  October 8th, 2015

  The Ex sends a reply about the October 10th tournament, first saying that she'll have to leave Daughter here, then saying she'll have to ask her dad if he wants to pick up Daughter on Saturday, and then asking if Daughter can just miss the tournament.  The Ex then replies about the October 24th tournament and says before she answers, she needs to talk to her dad, rambling on about needing other people to pick up all four of her kids; she says she'll "let him know soon."  Husband replies and says it's fine if she doesn't want to switch but Daughter needs to be in Other City all day on October 24th and will need to be back here by 11:30am on October 25th for her other event.  Husband says if The Ex can bring Daughter to all of her events on time, then we'll let the schedule as it is; if she can't, then he's willing to switch so that she can see both of the kids rather than just Son.

  October 18th, 2015

  Husband sends a message to The Ex saying that he asked her about this weekend on September 22nd and points out that she told him ten days ago that she'd let him know soon.  Husband says he hasn't heard from her and Daughter is wondering what's going on.  Husband says if she doesn't respond in 48 hours like she's supposed to, then they're switching weekends.

  October 20th, 2015

  Husband sent a message saying that Daughter would like to be in basketball again this year.

  The Ex was on Facebook on October 19th; didn't log into 2houses.  The Ex was on Facebook on October 20th in both the morning and afternoon.  Still didn't log into 2houses during those times.

  At 9:19pm last night, which was forty-eight hours and six minutes later:
"Either [The Ex's sister] picks up [Son] on Friday or we'll have to switch weekends. (...this is EXACTLY what Husband said.  Last.  F*cking.  Month.  Does she think this was her idea, that she came up with some kind of solution?)  I know [Son] wants to come here, so I think it's best we pickup [Son] on friday, and [Daughter] attend her events. (Okay, so is that your final answer?  You're picking up only Son and leaving Daughter here?  Please, tell me again how you want to spend sooo much more time with the kids.)  I can't drive just yet. (I don't care if you can walk, run, jump, drive, or fly.  I want to know what the hell is going on with these children this weekend.)  Not sure who would be picking [Son] up.  [The Ex's brother] or [The Ex's sister]? (Once again, I don't care.  Transportation is your deal, not mine.  All I need to know is who's getting the kids, if they're getting them in the first place.) We are also attending a funeral this Friday. (Omg, who the hell cares?!)
[The Ex]"

  At 9:20pm, in response to the message about Daughter wanting to play basketball:
"I know she does."

  Husband replied to the first message and told her that based on her message, he's going to assume she's only picking up Son and leaving Daughter here. (It's easier if we don't assume anything but let's face it:  she never really gave an answer, she just said "I think it's best..." which could always be changed at the last damned second.)  Husband said in the future, he's not waiting a month for her to make a decision and if she can't make up her mind and send him an answer in 48 hours like she agreed she was going to, then he's just going to make plans by himself. (She's still going to complain when this happens later on.  My goodness, how can Husband be so selfish and bossy; she just simply doesn't have time to think about her children and communicate anything about them.) He also asked her to please remind her family what the exchange time is on both days and said everybody seems to be confused because Son and Daughter are always picked up early and dropped off late. (I don't expect her to send Husband any kind of reply to this, but I know that she and her family will bitch about it to each other, including Son and Daughter.)

  Husband then replied to the "I know she does" message, saying he's required to notify her of extracurricular activities prior to the kids being enrolled so that she can object if she wants to.  (See, this is how you follow the court order like big people do!  Yay, Husband!  Thanks for communicating and trying to involve The Ex in her kids' lives!)

  I seriously cannot wait until both of these kids are 18 and we will no longer be required to communication with this bimbo.