I forgot to tell you guys.

  A few weeks ago, it was Ned's birthday.  This is what The Ex wrote on his timeline:

"When I moved to [Tiny City] last April I wanted to concentrate on my kids. (You ran away from your marriage to Boyfriend and within two months, started dating Ned while you were still sleeping with New Guy.  At no point in your life have you ever concentrated on any of your children.)  I started working in May at [store] and met the most wonderful person. [Ned's first and last name]. (She used to call Boyfriend her "wonderful husband."  Now Ned is "the most wonderful person.") Thank you for giving me your phone number. (I have no idea what Ned was thinking; part of me wonders if the loneliness signified by the end of his marriage was more than he could handle.  This is a complete rebound relationship for the both of them and I shudder to think of how their kids are going to be affected by their stupidity.) My life and my kids lives have forever been changed by you. (Exactly how have your lives been "forever changed"?  Oh, because he gave you a promise ring??? *giggle*) Your (*You're) my smart, caring, passionate, lover and father (I am personally disturbed at the way she tied the words "lover" and "father" together.) any person would love to have in their lives. (Except for me.  I do not want Ned in my life because every encounter I've had with him leads me to believe that he is an effeminate, weak, little man who is going to be completely destroyed emotionally by The Ex when she gets bored with him.) You've given all of us much more than I ever dreamed of. (Why, because he let you move into his house so you could get out of your parents' trailer?  Because three of your four children now sleep in a basement?  I can't name a single thing that Ned has given to Son or Daughter.  I don't know what on Earth she's talking about.) That's why I Love You so much!! (So....she loves him because he does stuff for her?  Cool.  I love Husband because of who he is, not what he does for me.) Happy Birthday My Love!!! (I've got to be honest - everytime she says "my love," I can feel vomit in the back of my throat.  I also think it's weird as hell that she uses the term "my love" for both her boyfriend and her children.)"

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