New year, same old lies
New Years' Day, Husband wakes up to find a text message on his phone from an unknown number:
"Good morning! This is [The Ex]. Don't know if you have my new phone number. (You never gave it to him, why would he have it? Found out the kids have had this number for 2.5 weeks; thanks for not letting us know how to reach you in case there was an emergency with the kids. Parenting win!) Just wanted to let you know that I will be dropping [Daughter] off later today. (Daughter was supposed to stay through Monday evening because of winter break, but had practice on Monday. This is the first we heard about Daughter coming home early.) Before 8pm. (So, Daughter will be home sometime in the next twelve hours. Thanks for narrowing that down.) She says that she can't miss practice. (Husband literally told her this forty-two days ago. This is not new information.) On the schedule it says it's TBD. (She's referring to the schedule that was handed out nearly two months ago. Twelve days ago, Husband updated the 2houses calendar and emailed her stating what time practice would be on Monday morning. But of course, she hasn't bothered checking her messages or the calendar.) If you find out before 4pm that there (*they're) not having practice mom and dad will drop both kids off tomorrow then. (So you're leaving your house by 4pm? What if we found out after 4pm, then what happens? Also, what happened to not asking your parents to help you anymore with transportation because "there not doing so well"?) I'm sending you a text bc [phone company] messed up my email. (Oh dear heavens, she cannot seriously be trying to pull this bullshit again. How in the name of all that is good and decent could her cell phone provider have done anything to mess up her email?) I'm hoping to get in on Monday morning and they can hopefully fix there (*their) mistake. (The only possible way to fix this is to invent a time machine, travel back 35 years, and prevent your parents from having sex on the night you were conceived. Other than that, we will all just have to deal with your stupidity.)
Anyways, I haven't had email for about 2 weeks. (And you're just telling Husband about it now? The court order says you'll agree to check your email daily, and now you're saying you've been without email for two weeks? By the way, this is all crap. I know for a fact that she has a Gmail account she's never given to us because she has/had an Android phone.) Please, if you need anything, text me please. (Please, no, I won't please.) I'll message you on 2 houses when they fix my email. (Your phone company cannot "fix your email" because they didn't do anything to your email. The only issue at hand is that you are not smart enough to use the Internet.)"
Husband replied to her text saying that 2houses still works even if she can't log into her email and that he'll communicate with her there. (The cost of the 2houses subscription has been worth every. single. penny.) Approximately one hour later, The Ex logged into 2houses and replied to the messages that Husband sent weeks ago.
After previously stating twice that Daughter would be home before 8pm, The Ex and Ned backed into our driveway at 8:15pm. (Daughter said they stopped at a fast food restaurant and had gone inside to eat.) Husband emailed The Ex and said that if she was going to be dropping off the kids at an unscheduled time in the future, he'd appreciate if she'd pick a time and stick to it; he said it's unreasonable to give him a 12-hour notice that she's going to show up sometime that day, and then still be 15 minutes late from the timeframe that she decided on. (This will probably remain unread for another two weeks.)
She is so very clearly not over him that it almost makes me feel bad for her.
"Good morning! This is [The Ex]. Don't know if you have my new phone number. (You never gave it to him, why would he have it? Found out the kids have had this number for 2.5 weeks; thanks for not letting us know how to reach you in case there was an emergency with the kids. Parenting win!) Just wanted to let you know that I will be dropping [Daughter] off later today. (Daughter was supposed to stay through Monday evening because of winter break, but had practice on Monday. This is the first we heard about Daughter coming home early.) Before 8pm. (So, Daughter will be home sometime in the next twelve hours. Thanks for narrowing that down.) She says that she can't miss practice. (Husband literally told her this forty-two days ago. This is not new information.) On the schedule it says it's TBD. (She's referring to the schedule that was handed out nearly two months ago. Twelve days ago, Husband updated the 2houses calendar and emailed her stating what time practice would be on Monday morning. But of course, she hasn't bothered checking her messages or the calendar.) If you find out before 4pm that there (*they're) not having practice mom and dad will drop both kids off tomorrow then. (So you're leaving your house by 4pm? What if we found out after 4pm, then what happens? Also, what happened to not asking your parents to help you anymore with transportation because "there not doing so well"?) I'm sending you a text bc [phone company] messed up my email. (Oh dear heavens, she cannot seriously be trying to pull this bullshit again. How in the name of all that is good and decent could her cell phone provider have done anything to mess up her email?) I'm hoping to get in on Monday morning and they can hopefully fix there (*their) mistake. (The only possible way to fix this is to invent a time machine, travel back 35 years, and prevent your parents from having sex on the night you were conceived. Other than that, we will all just have to deal with your stupidity.)
Anyways, I haven't had email for about 2 weeks. (And you're just telling Husband about it now? The court order says you'll agree to check your email daily, and now you're saying you've been without email for two weeks? By the way, this is all crap. I know for a fact that she has a Gmail account she's never given to us because she has/had an Android phone.) Please, if you need anything, text me please. (Please, no, I won't please.) I'll message you on 2 houses when they fix my email. (Your phone company cannot "fix your email" because they didn't do anything to your email. The only issue at hand is that you are not smart enough to use the Internet.)"
Husband replied to her text saying that 2houses still works even if she can't log into her email and that he'll communicate with her there. (The cost of the 2houses subscription has been worth every. single. penny.) Approximately one hour later, The Ex logged into 2houses and replied to the messages that Husband sent weeks ago.
After previously stating twice that Daughter would be home before 8pm, The Ex and Ned backed into our driveway at 8:15pm. (Daughter said they stopped at a fast food restaurant and had gone inside to eat.) Husband emailed The Ex and said that if she was going to be dropping off the kids at an unscheduled time in the future, he'd appreciate if she'd pick a time and stick to it; he said it's unreasonable to give him a 12-hour notice that she's going to show up sometime that day, and then still be 15 minutes late from the timeframe that she decided on. (This will probably remain unread for another two weeks.)
She is so very clearly not over him that it almost makes me feel bad for her.
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