Oh my actual goodness, part two
The Ex asked last week about picking the kids up 2.5 hours early; this was only four days after she dropped them off 1.5 hours late with no explanation and no apology. (You can read about it here.) Husband emailed her back and said they use 2houses because she claims not to get his other forms of communication, said he doesn't want her to beg but he wants her to follow the court order and she doesn't, said he was willing to let the kids get picked up half an hour early to get back in time for the concert even though she dropped them off late the previous Sunday, reminded her of the medical bill balance and the last date she paid, and asked her to let him know what she was planning on doing.
The Ex replied the following afternoon:
"You never call me(Not anymore, he doesn't.)...like when [Son] was caught with alcohol in class and suspended from school(Yes, Son was caught with alcohol in school. He told us it was his mistake and he wanted to tell The Ex himself; we respected that. Son was never barred from school premises; he served a 3-day in-school suspension.)...or maybe when [Daughter] needed medical attention, a had a concussion, and you couldn't call me you had to use 2 houses...(The court order reads that the parents will notify each other immediately of any medical emergency. A concussion is not an emergency. Daughter did not need to be seen by a doctor that night, nor did she need to be taken to urgent care or the ER. She hit her head on the court Friday night, Husband emailed The Ex on Friday night about it. Somehow, what Husband did was wrong.) You didn't even put in 2 houses that [Son] took alcohol to school. (...is she not aware that she already brought this up? Or does she think it happened more than once?) You didn't notify me in any way. [Son] did. OUR SON... (I KNOW. Oh, sorry. Thought we were all typing in CAPS unnecessarily. Anyway, going all the way back to when this happened, I called Our Attorney; she said we're not required to tell The Ex because it happened on our time and we handled it. We don't call her every time we have to punish Son for something; this is our house, our rules, we took care of it and we didn't have to tell her if we didn't want to.) So, when you say that I claim to not get your calls or texts. (Uh, this is not a complete thought.) You never reply to texts, ask our son. (Why is it Son's business how the two of you communicate?) He asked me to text you and he was standing next to you when I did. No reply. (Yeah, because we pay for 2houses now. Just because Son told you to text Husband doesn't mean we're going to start doing things the way you want to.) You didn't answer my phone call, or respond to either my voicemailor text... (She talked to Son on the phone after that, Husband answered her question. That was when she forgot that it wasn't her weekend and was planning to pick up the kids that Friday. Son wanted to go anyway and we let him.) Get your facts straight before putting your dirty lying foot in your mouth. (Okay, well, that's not what the phrase "foot in mouth" means. And you haven't explained what Husband lied about, soooo....) Enough is enough. (I don't know why she thinks she can go off on these tirades and then suddenly declare, "Enough is enough," like that's the end of the discussion.) The kids already see through you and [my name, misspelled]. (They "see through us"? See through what, exactly? Unlike you, we've never lied to them about anything. The only reason Son wants to move to Tiny City is because he has no rules and can say and do whatever he wants with no consequences. Daughter hates it at your house and she wants Son to move out of ours because he's been acting like such an asshat, thanks to your "parenting.") [Son] already said he's out of there after graduation. (We know, we told him he could move out and didn't have to wait until he's 18.) What more do you want? (For you to stop being a narcissist. For you to think about your kids instead of yourself, even if just for one day. For you to stop being so insane.) You 2 have pushed our son out??? (No, you and your family lie to him about the past, present and future. You tell Son that Husband "treats him like shit" just because we have rules in our house. You encourage Son to quit a very good job that he has just so he can move to Tiny City and you can feel like you "won" somehow. So no, we didn't push anyone out; you've been pulling on him since he was a child.) You aren't even home this weekend the 13th and [Son] and [Daughter] expressed wanting to come up here. I know [Son] hasd asked you... (First of all, the only reason Son would want to go is to see Girlfriend. Second, Daughter definitely does not want to go up there. Third, Husband was home for the weekend. Fourth, Son never asked Husband anything.)
All I would like is to pick the kids up once after school on Thursday the 19th, due to their sister [name] having her spring concert. 5pm pick up is too late (No, it's not.) and finding a seat so I can see my daughter will be impossible. (Have your parents get the kids like you always do; go ahead and save a row of seats up in front, just like you've always told Son or Daughter to do for their performances here when your herd of a family is coming.) How heartless are you??? (Yawn.) 4pm would be better if you could work with that? Please let me (She calls him a liar and heartless, and then still expects him to do her a favor. She is just priceless.)
Husband replied and said that he's never denied getting her calls, texts or emails; she claimed not to get his. He said he signed up for 2houses over three years ago because of her issues, the site is the only thing that works and because of that, the site is the only thing he'll use. Husband said that Son wanted to tell her himself about getting in trouble; he said he told her immediately about Daughter and it's not his fault that she ignored the email for almost 2 months. Husband said that nobody pushed Son out and that he was home for the weekend, and that she needed to stop making things up. Husband repeated that she could pick up the kids at 5pm and if that didn't work, then maybe she could pick them up after the concert or the following day. He asked her again to please let him know what she was planning on doing.
Husband sent that message 64 hours ago. The Ex hasn't even logged into 2houses to read his reply.
The Ex replied the following afternoon:
"You never call me(Not anymore, he doesn't.)...like when [Son] was caught with alcohol in class and suspended from school(Yes, Son was caught with alcohol in school. He told us it was his mistake and he wanted to tell The Ex himself; we respected that. Son was never barred from school premises; he served a 3-day in-school suspension.)...or maybe when [Daughter] needed medical attention, a had a concussion, and you couldn't call me you had to use 2 houses...(The court order reads that the parents will notify each other immediately of any medical emergency. A concussion is not an emergency. Daughter did not need to be seen by a doctor that night, nor did she need to be taken to urgent care or the ER. She hit her head on the court Friday night, Husband emailed The Ex on Friday night about it. Somehow, what Husband did was wrong.) You didn't even put in 2 houses that [Son] took alcohol to school. (...is she not aware that she already brought this up? Or does she think it happened more than once?) You didn't notify me in any way. [Son] did. OUR SON... (I KNOW. Oh, sorry. Thought we were all typing in CAPS unnecessarily. Anyway, going all the way back to when this happened, I called Our Attorney; she said we're not required to tell The Ex because it happened on our time and we handled it. We don't call her every time we have to punish Son for something; this is our house, our rules, we took care of it and we didn't have to tell her if we didn't want to.) So, when you say that I claim to not get your calls or texts. (Uh, this is not a complete thought.) You never reply to texts, ask our son. (Why is it Son's business how the two of you communicate?) He asked me to text you and he was standing next to you when I did. No reply. (Yeah, because we pay for 2houses now. Just because Son told you to text Husband doesn't mean we're going to start doing things the way you want to.) You didn't answer my phone call, or respond to either my voicemailor text... (She talked to Son on the phone after that, Husband answered her question. That was when she forgot that it wasn't her weekend and was planning to pick up the kids that Friday. Son wanted to go anyway and we let him.) Get your facts straight before putting your dirty lying foot in your mouth. (Okay, well, that's not what the phrase "foot in mouth" means. And you haven't explained what Husband lied about, soooo....) Enough is enough. (I don't know why she thinks she can go off on these tirades and then suddenly declare, "Enough is enough," like that's the end of the discussion.) The kids already see through you and [my name, misspelled]. (They "see through us"? See through what, exactly? Unlike you, we've never lied to them about anything. The only reason Son wants to move to Tiny City is because he has no rules and can say and do whatever he wants with no consequences. Daughter hates it at your house and she wants Son to move out of ours because he's been acting like such an asshat, thanks to your "parenting.") [Son] already said he's out of there after graduation. (We know, we told him he could move out and didn't have to wait until he's 18.) What more do you want? (For you to stop being a narcissist. For you to think about your kids instead of yourself, even if just for one day. For you to stop being so insane.) You 2 have pushed our son out??? (No, you and your family lie to him about the past, present and future. You tell Son that Husband "treats him like shit" just because we have rules in our house. You encourage Son to quit a very good job that he has just so he can move to Tiny City and you can feel like you "won" somehow. So no, we didn't push anyone out; you've been pulling on him since he was a child.) You aren't even home this weekend the 13th and [Son] and [Daughter] expressed wanting to come up here. I know [Son] hasd asked you... (First of all, the only reason Son would want to go is to see Girlfriend. Second, Daughter definitely does not want to go up there. Third, Husband was home for the weekend. Fourth, Son never asked Husband anything.)
All I would like is to pick the kids up once after school on Thursday the 19th, due to their sister [name] having her spring concert. 5pm pick up is too late (No, it's not.) and finding a seat so I can see my daughter will be impossible. (Have your parents get the kids like you always do; go ahead and save a row of seats up in front, just like you've always told Son or Daughter to do for their performances here when your herd of a family is coming.) How heartless are you??? (Yawn.) 4pm would be better if you could work with that? Please let me (She calls him a liar and heartless, and then still expects him to do her a favor. She is just priceless.)
Husband replied and said that he's never denied getting her calls, texts or emails; she claimed not to get his. He said he signed up for 2houses over three years ago because of her issues, the site is the only thing that works and because of that, the site is the only thing he'll use. Husband said that Son wanted to tell her himself about getting in trouble; he said he told her immediately about Daughter and it's not his fault that she ignored the email for almost 2 months. Husband said that nobody pushed Son out and that he was home for the weekend, and that she needed to stop making things up. Husband repeated that she could pick up the kids at 5pm and if that didn't work, then maybe she could pick them up after the concert or the following day. He asked her again to please let him know what she was planning on doing.
Husband sent that message 64 hours ago. The Ex hasn't even logged into 2houses to read his reply.
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