"PLEASE let us know."

  Daughter already gave us a heads-up last week that The Ex wanted to switch weekends; she said that this upcoming weekend, The Ex had already made plans to go somewhere with Ned and her two younger kids.  I asked why she planned something on her placement weekend; Daughter said that The Ex "didn't think" it was her weekend.  Daughter asked if she had looked at the calendar. (Translation:  You're an idiot, Mom.)  I don't know what excuse The Ex had for it.  Daughter then said that The Ex wanted to switch this weekend for a later weekend because Ned is having his annual party on Husband's weekend, and The Ex wanted Daughter to be there for the party.

  Thursday night Daughter was on the phone with her; I heard her tell The Ex no less than three times to email Husband about switching weekends.  The Ex said she was going to hang up with Daughter and email Husband right away.  Unsurprisingly, she did not.  The Ex waited three and a half days, and then emailed Husband.

  At 10:40am on Monday, The Ex sent:
"Good morning [Husband]. (The greeting alone has me convinced that she authored the message that "Son" sent to Husband on Saturday.)  I was hoping to switch weekends with you since I won't be around this weekend of the 9th. (So let's clarify:  she didn't check when she had placement of Daughter, made plans without Daughter on a weekend that she was supposed to have her, and waited to give Husband only four days' notice that she wants to switch weekends.) [Daughter] would like to switch for the weekend of the 29th? (Is she asking if Daughter wants to switch?  She used a question mark so I assume that it's a question.  No, Daughter doesn't "want to switch."  I asked her and she said she doesn't care if she goes to Ned's party or not.) PLEASE let us know. (I'LL make sure to do that.) Thanks"

  Husband replied last night and told The Ex that since she's not going to be around and Daughter has a tournament, Daughter is staying home with us.  He said if she wants Daughter for the weekend of Ned's party, then we can switch for another weekend that he and I would prefer to have her.  He said to please let him know if that's what she wants to do, and he'll update the calendar.

  Waiting for either a)The Ex's bitchy response or b)no response from her but a screenshot of the message sent to both Son and Daughter telling them what an asshole Husband is.

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