HER son's birthday party.
Putting aside the volleyball issue, there was still plenty of drama surrounding The Ex's son's birthday party.
Apparently, The Ex had planned this haunted-house themed party and it was going to be a whole big deal and members of the family, including Daughter, were supposed to dress up and be part of this haunted house. (I ought to upload the video that The Ex posted when her daughter was 4 and her son was 1. The Ex and Boyfriend decided to take them to a haunted house/train thing; her daughter was scared out of her mind. As this happened, The Ex filmed it on her phone. The Ex didn't take her daughter away from what was scaring her, she didn't stop recording; you just hear this traumatized child screaming and crying throughout the whole. damn. video.)
The night before the party, The Ex sent Daughter a long-winded text message complaining about...well, everything:
"Ordered 6 pizzas from [local pizza place]. 1 cheese, 3 pepperoni, 2 sausage.
I'll probably end up ordering 1 more cheese.
Really wish you were here. Miss you so much. (This was only 4 days after telling Daughter, "Don't come fucking at all!") [Ned's] sick. Probably just going to be sicker tomorrow. (Remember this. It's important later in this same blog post.) I have absolutely no help for decorating. (She's got both of her parents, two or three of her siblings, her sister-in-law, and Ned's family all within a 5-mile radius of their home...and she has "absolutely no help"?) I need your magic touch sweetie. All I want to do is cry. [Son] probably isn't even coming. He didn't even call your brother on his birthday(Girlfriend told me that The Ex's son called them at 5pm complaining that nobody had called him for his birthday. This is not how an 8-year-old thinks or acts unless he's being coached. She's despicable.), but why would he...he couldn't even call his real mom on her birthday let alone mother's day. (She spent Mother's Day out of town and was telling everyone that she was "done" with Son. Why the hell would he call her? Also, Girlfriend told me that he went over there when The Ex got back into town, but okay...sure. He didn't call her, so he's just complete garbage.) Mom and didn't even say happy birthday. (I think she meant "Mom and Dad," indicating that her parents didn't even wish her son a happy birthday.) Yet, his piece of shit dad (Boyfriend) had enough nerve to call on his birthday but not on [The Ex's daughter's] birthday. WTF... That really makes me mad. (I don't know if I've said it on this blog or not, but I don't think that The Ex's daughter belongs to Boyfriend. The little girl looks nothing like Boyfriend OR The Ex; their son could be Boyfriend's twin, just like Son could be Husband's twin.) And on top of everything, kk (The Ex refers to her stepson as "KK" which is an acronym for "Killer Kid"...this little boy is 8 years old.) gets into a fucking fight at school with the same kid he got into a fight with last Wednesday when we weren't here...
JUST KILL ME NOW"
So as we all know, that's a lot of unnecessary drama which has nothing to do with Daughter and is completely out of her control. But it's going to make her feel bad which is the only reason that The Ex sent it.
The day of the party, Girlfriend started sending me screenshots of the conversations that she and Son were having with The Ex. First, Girlfriend had messaged asking if the party was going to be outdoors; she was concerned because the baby already had a cough and she was nervous about him being around little kids with germs. The Ex replied, "It is. Your (You're) welcome to stay inside if u want." (I read this and laughed because I knew exactly what would happen. The Ex is the one who said that Girlfriend could stay indoors yet if she did, The Ex would be outdoors talking shit about Girlfriend for not joining the rest of them. Also, how weird does it look when you show up to a party and go sit inside by yourself? Honestly...)
A few minutes later, Son messaged The Ex asking how sick Ned was. The Ex replied, "He has a cough." (That's funny. The night before she was whining to Daughter that Ned was sick and was "probably just going to be sicker tomorrow." But now it's "a cough.") Son said that if the baby got sick, he was going to be pissed and they wouldn't want to hear from her. The Ex replied, "U don't talk to me know(*now)..." and then told Son not to come if he didn't want to. Son told her that maybe it was because she had treated them like shit about her house and said something like that wouldn't happen again.
Girlfriend said she messaged The Ex trying to explain why they were upset; they watched the kids, took care of the house, and then got told that everything they did was wrong. The Ex replied:
"The laundry honestly I don't care. (Ned told them she was upset that Son and Girlfriend hadn't done the laundry they left behind. The Ex says she doesn't care, yet five days before this was bitching to Daughter about it.) The only thing and huge thing was the bouncer. (She told Daughter that she was mad about the laundry, she was mad about the food, said that Son and Girlfriend drank all of their alcohol and went into the soda that was for the birthday party, that they left a mess everywhere, that they left cigarette butts all over the place, that the bathroom was a pigsty...but now the "only thing" that she's upset about is the bouncer. Yup, okay.) I paid $60 for it. (Then she's an idiot because Walmart has them all day for $20-40.) [The baby] wouldn't have bent it to Hell. (Girlfriend told me it had a weight limit of 20 lbs, which is close to what the baby was at that time. She brought this up and The Ex told her that it was fine and to put the baby into it anyway. Now it's bent and it's Son and/or Girlfriend's fault and they're being accused of laying on it or putting something heavy in it. For all we know, it was one of The Ex's spawn but she's blaming Son and Girlfriend for it.) It took [Ned] all he could just to bend it it back. (Listen, I'm not the smartest person alive but if a bouncer has been excessively bent one way and then bent back the other, chances are I'm not going to put my kid in it because it's probably not safe anymore.) You don't know I guess how many years [Son] has treated me like SHIT. (I brought this up to Son and Girlfriend later. I said to Son, "If you've 'treated her like shit' for so long, why did she try to get custody of you in your senior year? So you could treat her like shit full-time??" They both laughed.) I'm honestly done with him. I've told I'm good to him only to c [the baby] and nothing more anymore. (Son told me about this. He asked, "Who says that to their own kid?") I can't deal with his meanness towards me anymore (This woman spews animosity toward any number of people on a daily basis, but she can't handle Son's "meanness" anymore...wtf-ever.)"
Son and Girlfriend did go to Son's brother's party. Girlfriend said they went for about half an hour. (The Ex later told Daughter that she'd only seen them "for a minute" and then they left. Then again, we took the kids to her son's birthday party 7 years ago and stayed for over 2 hours; The Ex later repeatedly accused us of forcing her to rush the party and then leaving after only one hour.) She said that The Ex pretended that nothing was wrong, but said Ned was shooting them dirty looks. She said Son went to get them some food and Ned walked over and took the scoop out of Son's hand. She said they left the garage, heard Son's name about 3 times, and then everyone inside started laughing. She said the final straw was when The Ex's friend tried to give the baby to her son after Girlfriend had already made it clear months before that she didn't want this kid holding him because he'd been poking the baby in the head.
The next day, Husband and I went to take some things to Son and Girlfriend because they're supposed to be getting an apartment pretty soon. Son told us that his brother's party was terrible and that he didn't even look like he was enjoying his own party; I said that was too bad.
When we got home later that night, Daughter said that The Ex's sister had called her and told her how horrible the birthday party was. Daughter said that The Ex had invited a bunch of her daughter's friends and that they weren't behaving very well at the party. Husband asked why The Ex would invite her daughter's friends and not her son's friends if it was her son's birthday party; Daughter said she had no idea.
As if all of the birthday drama wasn't enough, we upgraded Daughter's phone last week. The things that we found in her old phone are pretty much proof that The Ex is spiraling toward rock-bottom and when she finally hits, it's going to be a complete disaster.
Apparently, The Ex had planned this haunted-house themed party and it was going to be a whole big deal and members of the family, including Daughter, were supposed to dress up and be part of this haunted house. (I ought to upload the video that The Ex posted when her daughter was 4 and her son was 1. The Ex and Boyfriend decided to take them to a haunted house/train thing; her daughter was scared out of her mind. As this happened, The Ex filmed it on her phone. The Ex didn't take her daughter away from what was scaring her, she didn't stop recording; you just hear this traumatized child screaming and crying throughout the whole. damn. video.)
The night before the party, The Ex sent Daughter a long-winded text message complaining about...well, everything:
"Ordered 6 pizzas from [local pizza place]. 1 cheese, 3 pepperoni, 2 sausage.
I'll probably end up ordering 1 more cheese.
Really wish you were here. Miss you so much. (This was only 4 days after telling Daughter, "Don't come fucking at all!") [Ned's] sick. Probably just going to be sicker tomorrow. (Remember this. It's important later in this same blog post.) I have absolutely no help for decorating. (She's got both of her parents, two or three of her siblings, her sister-in-law, and Ned's family all within a 5-mile radius of their home...and she has "absolutely no help"?) I need your magic touch sweetie. All I want to do is cry. [Son] probably isn't even coming. He didn't even call your brother on his birthday(Girlfriend told me that The Ex's son called them at 5pm complaining that nobody had called him for his birthday. This is not how an 8-year-old thinks or acts unless he's being coached. She's despicable.), but why would he...he couldn't even call his real mom on her birthday let alone mother's day. (She spent Mother's Day out of town and was telling everyone that she was "done" with Son. Why the hell would he call her? Also, Girlfriend told me that he went over there when The Ex got back into town, but okay...sure. He didn't call her, so he's just complete garbage.) Mom and didn't even say happy birthday. (I think she meant "Mom and Dad," indicating that her parents didn't even wish her son a happy birthday.) Yet, his piece of shit dad (Boyfriend) had enough nerve to call on his birthday but not on [The Ex's daughter's] birthday. WTF... That really makes me mad. (I don't know if I've said it on this blog or not, but I don't think that The Ex's daughter belongs to Boyfriend. The little girl looks nothing like Boyfriend OR The Ex; their son could be Boyfriend's twin, just like Son could be Husband's twin.) And on top of everything, kk (The Ex refers to her stepson as "KK" which is an acronym for "Killer Kid"...this little boy is 8 years old.) gets into a fucking fight at school with the same kid he got into a fight with last Wednesday when we weren't here...
JUST KILL ME NOW"
So as we all know, that's a lot of unnecessary drama which has nothing to do with Daughter and is completely out of her control. But it's going to make her feel bad which is the only reason that The Ex sent it.
The day of the party, Girlfriend started sending me screenshots of the conversations that she and Son were having with The Ex. First, Girlfriend had messaged asking if the party was going to be outdoors; she was concerned because the baby already had a cough and she was nervous about him being around little kids with germs. The Ex replied, "It is. Your (You're) welcome to stay inside if u want." (I read this and laughed because I knew exactly what would happen. The Ex is the one who said that Girlfriend could stay indoors yet if she did, The Ex would be outdoors talking shit about Girlfriend for not joining the rest of them. Also, how weird does it look when you show up to a party and go sit inside by yourself? Honestly...)
A few minutes later, Son messaged The Ex asking how sick Ned was. The Ex replied, "He has a cough." (That's funny. The night before she was whining to Daughter that Ned was sick and was "probably just going to be sicker tomorrow." But now it's "a cough.") Son said that if the baby got sick, he was going to be pissed and they wouldn't want to hear from her. The Ex replied, "U don't talk to me know(*now)..." and then told Son not to come if he didn't want to. Son told her that maybe it was because she had treated them like shit about her house and said something like that wouldn't happen again.
Girlfriend said she messaged The Ex trying to explain why they were upset; they watched the kids, took care of the house, and then got told that everything they did was wrong. The Ex replied:
"The laundry honestly I don't care. (Ned told them she was upset that Son and Girlfriend hadn't done the laundry they left behind. The Ex says she doesn't care, yet five days before this was bitching to Daughter about it.) The only thing and huge thing was the bouncer. (She told Daughter that she was mad about the laundry, she was mad about the food, said that Son and Girlfriend drank all of their alcohol and went into the soda that was for the birthday party, that they left a mess everywhere, that they left cigarette butts all over the place, that the bathroom was a pigsty...but now the "only thing" that she's upset about is the bouncer. Yup, okay.) I paid $60 for it. (Then she's an idiot because Walmart has them all day for $20-40.) [The baby] wouldn't have bent it to Hell. (Girlfriend told me it had a weight limit of 20 lbs, which is close to what the baby was at that time. She brought this up and The Ex told her that it was fine and to put the baby into it anyway. Now it's bent and it's Son and/or Girlfriend's fault and they're being accused of laying on it or putting something heavy in it. For all we know, it was one of The Ex's spawn but she's blaming Son and Girlfriend for it.) It took [Ned] all he could just to bend it it back. (Listen, I'm not the smartest person alive but if a bouncer has been excessively bent one way and then bent back the other, chances are I'm not going to put my kid in it because it's probably not safe anymore.) You don't know I guess how many years [Son] has treated me like SHIT. (I brought this up to Son and Girlfriend later. I said to Son, "If you've 'treated her like shit' for so long, why did she try to get custody of you in your senior year? So you could treat her like shit full-time??" They both laughed.) I'm honestly done with him. I've told I'm good to him only to c [the baby] and nothing more anymore. (Son told me about this. He asked, "Who says that to their own kid?") I can't deal with his meanness towards me anymore (This woman spews animosity toward any number of people on a daily basis, but she can't handle Son's "meanness" anymore...wtf-ever.)"
Son and Girlfriend did go to Son's brother's party. Girlfriend said they went for about half an hour. (The Ex later told Daughter that she'd only seen them "for a minute" and then they left. Then again, we took the kids to her son's birthday party 7 years ago and stayed for over 2 hours; The Ex later repeatedly accused us of forcing her to rush the party and then leaving after only one hour.) She said that The Ex pretended that nothing was wrong, but said Ned was shooting them dirty looks. She said Son went to get them some food and Ned walked over and took the scoop out of Son's hand. She said they left the garage, heard Son's name about 3 times, and then everyone inside started laughing. She said the final straw was when The Ex's friend tried to give the baby to her son after Girlfriend had already made it clear months before that she didn't want this kid holding him because he'd been poking the baby in the head.
The next day, Husband and I went to take some things to Son and Girlfriend because they're supposed to be getting an apartment pretty soon. Son told us that his brother's party was terrible and that he didn't even look like he was enjoying his own party; I said that was too bad.
When we got home later that night, Daughter said that The Ex's sister had called her and told her how horrible the birthday party was. Daughter said that The Ex had invited a bunch of her daughter's friends and that they weren't behaving very well at the party. Husband asked why The Ex would invite her daughter's friends and not her son's friends if it was her son's birthday party; Daughter said she had no idea.
As if all of the birthday drama wasn't enough, we upgraded Daughter's phone last week. The things that we found in her old phone are pretty much proof that The Ex is spiraling toward rock-bottom and when she finally hits, it's going to be a complete disaster.
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