The Ex is all over the place lately.
There's been quite a bit going on lately with The Ex, so I think it's easiest to address it all one thing at a time.
Thing 1:
Daughter recently had her final Parents' Night for sports. Obviously, Husband and I attended as we always do. The Ex also attended with her youngest son; Ned was nowhere to be found. This was extremely weird considering the past few Parents' Night incidences. You can read about those here, here, and here.
Someone else said they were surprised to see The Ex and asked if she was going to stay for the entire game. I said yes, but only because it was her weekend to have Daughter; if it wasn't, she'd probably be gone already or possibly not even have come to begin with.
When they announced Daughter, they only read three names - Husband's, mine, and The Ex's. No mention of Ned. Again, this was weird because The Ex had brought him the past few times and at the most recent one, she told Daughter she would pay her to have Ned listed as her parent. But this time, Ned wasn't there nor was he acknowledged in any way.
One of my friends speculated that maybe The Ex's daughter wasn't feeling well so Ned stayed home with her. I disagreed with this considering that Ned has come to a number of other Parents' Night events; even if the girl was sick, there were a number of other people that could have watched over & taken care of her in The Ex's absence. Not to mention that The Ex made a point of having his name mentioned the last time, but this time it apparently wasn't a big deal.
Thing 2:
The Ex shared a memory on Facebook last week; it was a picture of her four kids and her niece. The Ex had taken this picture after Daughter's basketball game when we resumed placement after withholding the kids for approximately five months. With the memory, The Ex wrote the caption:
"Wow!!!❤ How the years flew by... Look at [Son] and [Daughter]... so cute 😇"
That's lovely and all, but...The Ex misspelled Son's name.
No, seriously. She misspelled her own child's name.
Thing 3:
Son and Girlfriend had created a Facebook event for the baby's first birthday party. They've been asking everyone to let them know how many people would be there so they can get food, cake, etc. The Ex commented:
"Don't worry about the cake... I'm getting it. It's my treat. Just sorry we won't be around to help decorate"
This was after I'd told Girlfriend that we were going to help out by buying some stuff for the party and that we were planning on coming early to help them set up if they needed it. Girlfriend said she felt bad but they appreciated it because they were trying to get everything together and nobody in Tiny City was really helping them.
I also wondered where The Ex was going to be that she "wouldn't be around to help decorate" and then remembered that her son is in wrestling, so odds are that he's got a tournament. However, her son had a tournament last year on the day of the baby shower and The Ex skipped it to help with the shower; Ned and The Ex's dad went to the tournament and after it ended, Ned brought The Ex's son to the shower but The Ex's dad went home. But okay, sure...they "won't be around" to help decorate and I'm almost positive that they "won't be around" to help clean up, either.
Thing 4:
The Ex shared a picture yesterday that read:
"Don't be afraid to start all over again. You may like your new story better."
I mean, she got married 10 months ago, but okay.
Thing 5:
The Ex shared another post yesterday; it was a video of someone in a car messing around with his grandma. The Ex shared it and tagged her mom, her dad, two of her sisters, and Daughter; she shared it with the caption:
"LOL!!! Probably me with [the baby]!!!💖"
I thought it was weird that The Ex had tagged five people but not Son or Girlfriend in a post where she was referencing their son, so I screenshot it and sent it to Girlfriend asking why they wouldn't have been tagged and said I thought it was weird. Then this happened:
Girlfriend: I made her mad😂😂
Thing 1:
Daughter recently had her final Parents' Night for sports. Obviously, Husband and I attended as we always do. The Ex also attended with her youngest son; Ned was nowhere to be found. This was extremely weird considering the past few Parents' Night incidences. You can read about those here, here, and here.
Someone else said they were surprised to see The Ex and asked if she was going to stay for the entire game. I said yes, but only because it was her weekend to have Daughter; if it wasn't, she'd probably be gone already or possibly not even have come to begin with.
When they announced Daughter, they only read three names - Husband's, mine, and The Ex's. No mention of Ned. Again, this was weird because The Ex had brought him the past few times and at the most recent one, she told Daughter she would pay her to have Ned listed as her parent. But this time, Ned wasn't there nor was he acknowledged in any way.
One of my friends speculated that maybe The Ex's daughter wasn't feeling well so Ned stayed home with her. I disagreed with this considering that Ned has come to a number of other Parents' Night events; even if the girl was sick, there were a number of other people that could have watched over & taken care of her in The Ex's absence. Not to mention that The Ex made a point of having his name mentioned the last time, but this time it apparently wasn't a big deal.
Thing 2:
The Ex shared a memory on Facebook last week; it was a picture of her four kids and her niece. The Ex had taken this picture after Daughter's basketball game when we resumed placement after withholding the kids for approximately five months. With the memory, The Ex wrote the caption:
"Wow!!!❤ How the years flew by... Look at [Son] and [Daughter]... so cute 😇"
That's lovely and all, but...The Ex misspelled Son's name.
No, seriously. She misspelled her own child's name.
Thing 3:
Son and Girlfriend had created a Facebook event for the baby's first birthday party. They've been asking everyone to let them know how many people would be there so they can get food, cake, etc. The Ex commented:
"Don't worry about the cake... I'm getting it. It's my treat. Just sorry we won't be around to help decorate"
This was after I'd told Girlfriend that we were going to help out by buying some stuff for the party and that we were planning on coming early to help them set up if they needed it. Girlfriend said she felt bad but they appreciated it because they were trying to get everything together and nobody in Tiny City was really helping them.
I also wondered where The Ex was going to be that she "wouldn't be around to help decorate" and then remembered that her son is in wrestling, so odds are that he's got a tournament. However, her son had a tournament last year on the day of the baby shower and The Ex skipped it to help with the shower; Ned and The Ex's dad went to the tournament and after it ended, Ned brought The Ex's son to the shower but The Ex's dad went home. But okay, sure...they "won't be around" to help decorate and I'm almost positive that they "won't be around" to help clean up, either.
Thing 4:
The Ex shared a picture yesterday that read:
"Don't be afraid to start all over again. You may like your new story better."
I mean, she got married 10 months ago, but okay.
Thing 5:
The Ex shared another post yesterday; it was a video of someone in a car messing around with his grandma. The Ex shared it and tagged her mom, her dad, two of her sisters, and Daughter; she shared it with the caption:
"LOL!!! Probably me with [the baby]!!!💖"
I thought it was weird that The Ex had tagged five people but not Son or Girlfriend in a post where she was referencing their son, so I screenshot it and sent it to Girlfriend asking why they wouldn't have been tagged and said I thought it was weird. Then this happened:
Girlfriend: I made her mad😂😂
Girlfriend: *screenshot of The Ex's profile which showed the "Add Friend" button*
Girlfriend: I'm unfriended
Me: *GIF of someone gasping*
Me: Dare I even ask what you even did? 😂
Girlfriend: She didn't like my opinion on how she treats [Lucifer]
Girlfriend: She didn't like my opinion on how she treats [Lucifer]
Me: Oh, okay. So you called her out on her terrible behavior and her response was to cut you off. Got it ✌
Girlfriend: Andddd she asked me for my opinion I told her the way she acts is selfish. Your trying to make [Ned] choose over you or his son and that it's pathetic that she got her own kids to treat [lucifer] like shit now
Girlfriend: Andddd she asked me for my opinion I told her the way she acts is selfish. Your trying to make [Ned] choose over you or his son and that it's pathetic that she got her own kids to treat [lucifer] like shit now
Me: Good. I'm glad someone finally told her.
Me: Of course, she's not going to listen but still...
Me: Of course, she's not going to listen but still...
Girlfriend: Right lol
Honestly, I figured this was coming but I truly thought that the baby would at least be a few years old before it happened. The Ex thinks she can act like this but still expects Son and Girlfriend to come around like they're one big happy family and she's the mother/grandmother/mother-in-law of the year.
I also think it's funny how The Ex always posts things about her kids coming first and how they mean everything to her, yet she's trying to make Ned pick between her and Lucifer. And the whole "she got her own kids to treat [lucifer] like shit now" comment? Her kids are 11 and 8. They're mean to their stepbrother because The Ex wants them to be, but then The Ex is going to post things about being anti-bullying.
Honestly, I figured this was coming but I truly thought that the baby would at least be a few years old before it happened. The Ex thinks she can act like this but still expects Son and Girlfriend to come around like they're one big happy family and she's the mother/grandmother/mother-in-law of the year.
I also think it's funny how The Ex always posts things about her kids coming first and how they mean everything to her, yet she's trying to make Ned pick between her and Lucifer. And the whole "she got her own kids to treat [lucifer] like shit now" comment? Her kids are 11 and 8. They're mean to their stepbrother because The Ex wants them to be, but then The Ex is going to post things about being anti-bullying.
Misspelled her own son's name. While that isn't the most terrible thing she has done, that's still pretty bad.
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