Future convict in the making.

  We went to see Son and Girlfriend a few weekends ago.  Girlfriend brought up The Ex's younger son; both she and Son said that they were pissed off at the kid and said, for what seemed like the millionth time we've heard it from them, that The Ex's son is turning out to be a little brat.

  Son said recently, they had gone over to The Ex and Ned's house.  Son had a practically brand new pack of cigarettes with him; he said he had maybe smoked only one or two out of the pack.  The Ex saw Son's cigarettes on the ground, told her son to go stomp on Son's cigarettes...and he did.  Son said he got angry because The Ex had just wasted his money; The Ex said she didn't care because "it's bad for him."  Girlfriend said it wasn't the first time this had happened; she said The Ex's son had intentionally stepped on another pack of their cigarettes without being prompted by The Ex to do so.

  A few days after talking to Son and Girlfriend about this, Daughter was talking about her dogs at The Ex and Ned's house.  She said they gave their dogs middle and last names; she said that the dog that The Ex bought in 2012 has The Ex's middle and maiden names.  I asked why the dog has The Ex's maiden name if she was married to Boyfriend when they got the dog.  Daughter half-jokingly said that the dog didn't deserve to have Boyfriend's last name because the dog "isn't an a-hole."  I stifled a laugh and said, "Well, that used to be your mom's last name, so what are you saying about her?"  Daughter said that The Ex "sometimes" deserved to have Boyfriend's last name.  I said that her two siblings also had Boyfriend's last name.  Daughter replied that her youngest brother DOES deserve Boyfriend's last name and said he's growing up to be a dick.  I asked if there was anything new above and beyond what she'd said before about him.  Daughter said that The Ex's son was calling her "ugly" and "fatty" the last time she'd been at The Ex and Ned's house.

  I find it quite strange that The Ex is still referring to her stepson as "KK," which is an acronym for "Killer Kid" because she thinks he's "dangerous" or something along those lines.  She says she doesn't feel safe around her stepson, she doesn't want to be alone with him, and she doesn't want him sharing a bedroom with her kids.  Yet in all of this, The Ex is willfully oblivious to her own youngest child's behavior and just how horrible he's becoming.  All I can do is shake my head, roll my eyes, and sigh.  

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