The Crazy-meter is maxed out
I predicted it ten days before it happened. For a refresher, go read this blog post.
Husband messaged The Ex yesterday morning and sent a receipt with an updated balance that she owes him for variable expenses and medical bills; Husband reminded her that these were supposed to be repaid in 30 days and it was now over two months for a majority of the balance. Husband said he was asking for now the fifth time for The Ex to provide her insurance information; he said she had read all of his previous messages and ignored his requests, and he hoped they could resolve this without a court hearing.
Husband also sent a message about the kids' days off of school next month, saying that Daughter had a Friday off but also had an out-of-town basketball tournament that same weekend. Husband said to please let him know if The Ex was able to get Daughter to all of her games on time and would like to switch weekends.
The Ex replied to the first message:
"I had asked you how many times for copy of [Sons] birth certificate and you did not provide it. (Once. You asked once, on Christmas Day.) It would have been beneficial for both of us to have our kids covered under both of our insurance. (You are correct. That's why Husband has been asking you since September when you will have coverage for Son and Daughter.) Because of your lack of trust; and you not providing a copy of his birth certificate; I'm not sure if I will be able to have coverage on our son. (THERE IT IS!!! I called that sh*t a week and a half ago!!!) I also provided you with the fax number for you to be able to fax his paperwork. (This is a bold-faced lie. Husband asked for the fax number; she never provided it. We have proof that she read the message and never responded to it.) Since you failed to do so; our son is not covered according to the letter I received from my insurance. (Wait, you said you weren't sure if Son would be covered. Now you're saying you received a letter stating that Son is not covered. So which is it?)
I will follow up with my employer and verify if I would still be able to get [Son] covered; if I provide the proper paperwork to them. (So you're not sure if Son will be covered, then Son definitely wasn't covered, and now you're going to check if Son will be covered.)
With that being said; I need you to provide me with a copy of his birth certificate. (You can request it on your own, seeing as you are the biological parent.)"
Eleven minutes later, The Ex replied to the second message:
"That would be ok for you to pick [Son] up on Monday. According to the calendar you provided to me, it is your weekend on February 20th. (Husband wrote, "[Daughter] has off of school on February 20th which is my weekend..." I cannot fathom why she feels the need to repeat exactly what Husband has already written.) I have already made plans with my family. (A month in advance, eh? Are you and your lover going to have a nice romantic weekend together while Boyfriend stays at home with your kids?) Because of my plans, I don't know if she will be able to be on time for her games. (Okay, so we won't switch then. Problem solved.) If this is inconvenient for you; let me know so we can make some arrangements. (I literally have no idea what this is supposed to mean. "If this is inconvenient for you...." It's about Daughter playing basketball, when did convenience to Husband enter the equation??)"
Husband replied to the first message and recapped what happened:
11/25/14 - The Ex messaged asking for Son's SSN, said the deadline to sign up was 11/26/14. Husband told her that she already had the number.
12/25/14 - The Ex messaged asking for Son's birth certificate on Christmas Day, said the deadline to provide the BC was 12/27/14. This was the one and only time she ever requested the BC; she never answered any of Husband's questions, including providing the fax number that he requested
Husband told her that she is required to cover the kids; if Son is not covered it is due to her refusal to communicate with him and her inability to contact him in a timely manner, not because of anything that Husband has or has not done. Husband closed with:
"With that being said, you should still have coverage for [Daughter]. Please provide your information tonight." (She will have no answer for this. Son told us last night that The Ex doesn't have any insurance for any of her kids because she "can't afford it.")
The Ex read this message; she has not replied and still has not provided any insurance information.
Husband messaged The Ex yesterday morning and sent a receipt with an updated balance that she owes him for variable expenses and medical bills; Husband reminded her that these were supposed to be repaid in 30 days and it was now over two months for a majority of the balance. Husband said he was asking for now the fifth time for The Ex to provide her insurance information; he said she had read all of his previous messages and ignored his requests, and he hoped they could resolve this without a court hearing.
Husband also sent a message about the kids' days off of school next month, saying that Daughter had a Friday off but also had an out-of-town basketball tournament that same weekend. Husband said to please let him know if The Ex was able to get Daughter to all of her games on time and would like to switch weekends.
The Ex replied to the first message:
"I had asked you how many times for copy of [Sons] birth certificate and you did not provide it. (Once. You asked once, on Christmas Day.) It would have been beneficial for both of us to have our kids covered under both of our insurance. (You are correct. That's why Husband has been asking you since September when you will have coverage for Son and Daughter.) Because of your lack of trust; and you not providing a copy of his birth certificate; I'm not sure if I will be able to have coverage on our son. (THERE IT IS!!! I called that sh*t a week and a half ago!!!) I also provided you with the fax number for you to be able to fax his paperwork. (This is a bold-faced lie. Husband asked for the fax number; she never provided it. We have proof that she read the message and never responded to it.) Since you failed to do so; our son is not covered according to the letter I received from my insurance. (Wait, you said you weren't sure if Son would be covered. Now you're saying you received a letter stating that Son is not covered. So which is it?)
I will follow up with my employer and verify if I would still be able to get [Son] covered; if I provide the proper paperwork to them. (So you're not sure if Son will be covered, then Son definitely wasn't covered, and now you're going to check if Son will be covered.)
With that being said; I need you to provide me with a copy of his birth certificate. (You can request it on your own, seeing as you are the biological parent.)"
Eleven minutes later, The Ex replied to the second message:
"That would be ok for you to pick [Son] up on Monday. According to the calendar you provided to me, it is your weekend on February 20th. (Husband wrote, "[Daughter] has off of school on February 20th which is my weekend..." I cannot fathom why she feels the need to repeat exactly what Husband has already written.) I have already made plans with my family. (A month in advance, eh? Are you and your lover going to have a nice romantic weekend together while Boyfriend stays at home with your kids?) Because of my plans, I don't know if she will be able to be on time for her games. (Okay, so we won't switch then. Problem solved.) If this is inconvenient for you; let me know so we can make some arrangements. (I literally have no idea what this is supposed to mean. "If this is inconvenient for you...." It's about Daughter playing basketball, when did convenience to Husband enter the equation??)"
Husband replied to the first message and recapped what happened:
11/25/14 - The Ex messaged asking for Son's SSN, said the deadline to sign up was 11/26/14. Husband told her that she already had the number.
12/25/14 - The Ex messaged asking for Son's birth certificate on Christmas Day, said the deadline to provide the BC was 12/27/14. This was the one and only time she ever requested the BC; she never answered any of Husband's questions, including providing the fax number that he requested
Husband told her that she is required to cover the kids; if Son is not covered it is due to her refusal to communicate with him and her inability to contact him in a timely manner, not because of anything that Husband has or has not done. Husband closed with:
"With that being said, you should still have coverage for [Daughter]. Please provide your information tonight." (She will have no answer for this. Son told us last night that The Ex doesn't have any insurance for any of her kids because she "can't afford it.")
The Ex read this message; she has not replied and still has not provided any insurance information.
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