This voicemail embodies her.
Daughter has complained before that The Ex nags them about "spending time with her" but when they're in Tiny City, The Ex is spending all of her time with Ned (Just like she did ten years ago when she had custody; she'd leave the kids with her parents and run off with Boyfriend for who knows how long and her parents got tired of it.) A few weeks ago, Son had wanted to go to a water park with his girlfriend. While Son was gone, The Ex called him and left this voicemail at 3:19pm:
"[Son], I just drove by, twice now in the last hour. (I'm assuming she was saying she had driven past his girlfriend's house.) And....both those vehicles are there! Are you at [name of water park], or what?! (The Ex is now accusing Son of lying to her about where he is. Which I suppose isn't that hard to believe considering Son's behavior lately, particularly when he's with The Ex.) I guess I'm to the point where I'm starting to get upset. (About...?) I wanna spend time with you, and I want you to have time with your girlfriend, but you still need...to be in contact with Mom. (Ummm....he told you where he was going. You assumed he lied, and now you're getting upset due to your own baseless assumption.) If you can't be in contact with Mom, then...you can't go out, buddy! (Good luck with that. Son has told me in the past year or two that The Ex would tell him he had to stay home; he'd get on his bike and ride to his grandparents' trailer.) So... give me a call! After 5:30 because I'm going to [job] right now for a few clients. (That sentence says so very, very much.) We'll talk to you later! Mom loves you. Bye."
There's just so much going on here, in addition to her referring to herself in third-person a total of three times in under one minute. She told him that he could go with his girlfriend, and then complains that she wants to spend time with him. She calls him to find out where he is and says to call her back, but not right that moment; Son needs to call her back in two hours because that's what's convenient for her. She's complaining about him not being in contact with her, and then essentially states that she doesn't have time to even take his phone call.
It's like she's constantly arguing with herself and just drags other people into it to keep herself from getting bored. Absolutely no one is spared from this woman's insanity.
"[Son], I just drove by, twice now in the last hour. (I'm assuming she was saying she had driven past his girlfriend's house.) And....both those vehicles are there! Are you at [name of water park], or what?! (The Ex is now accusing Son of lying to her about where he is. Which I suppose isn't that hard to believe considering Son's behavior lately, particularly when he's with The Ex.) I guess I'm to the point where I'm starting to get upset. (About...?) I wanna spend time with you, and I want you to have time with your girlfriend, but you still need...to be in contact with Mom. (Ummm....he told you where he was going. You assumed he lied, and now you're getting upset due to your own baseless assumption.) If you can't be in contact with Mom, then...you can't go out, buddy! (Good luck with that. Son has told me in the past year or two that The Ex would tell him he had to stay home; he'd get on his bike and ride to his grandparents' trailer.) So... give me a call! After 5:30 because I'm going to [job] right now for a few clients. (That sentence says so very, very much.) We'll talk to you later! Mom loves you. Bye."
There's just so much going on here, in addition to her referring to herself in third-person a total of three times in under one minute. She told him that he could go with his girlfriend, and then complains that she wants to spend time with him. She calls him to find out where he is and says to call her back, but not right that moment; Son needs to call her back in two hours because that's what's convenient for her. She's complaining about him not being in contact with her, and then essentially states that she doesn't have time to even take his phone call.
It's like she's constantly arguing with herself and just drags other people into it to keep herself from getting bored. Absolutely no one is spared from this woman's insanity.
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