Gross.

  Daughter told me that this past weekend, The Ex made a comment to her along the lines of, "I feel like you're the girl at school who would lose her virginity this year."  She said The Ex also told her that she'd give Daughter $1,000 if she kept her virginity until she was twenty-two years old.

  Daughter is fifteen.

  I have no idea what the hell is wrong with this woman.

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  1. LaurenOctober 10, 2017 at 5:22 PM

    The amount of projection she’s putting onto her child amazes me. This is what she was when she was Daughter’s age, & we all know she wants Daughter to be just like her. This is just nasty & horrifying.

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    1. I'm Just Over Here LaughingOctober 10, 2017 at 5:44 PM

      Isn't it something? Daughter is much more beautiful, smarter, funnier, kinder, and overall a better person than her mother, by far. Rather than seeing her in a parent-child relationship, The Ex views her as competition and will knock her down any chance that she gets.

      When Daughter told me this last night, I asked, "Um...has she MET you?!" Daughter replied, "I know, right?!" She's only a teenager, but even she recognizes the insanity.

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  2. LaurenOctober 10, 2017 at 7:14 PM

    You see parents like this, you live in a world like this with these kinds of people, & it just amazes you. I never would have thought that parents could do to their children what we see every day as people who deal with others with narcissism, but Jesus Christ.

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