Narcissism, front and center.
After Son's ordeal with Nice Girl this past weekend, (Read it here if you haven't already.) he shared a picture on Facebook that reads:
"If you're judging someone based on who they used to be, obviously it's you who's stuck in the past."
Son is passive-aggressively stating to Nice Girl that if she doesn't want to date him, then it's her problem because she won't get over who he "used to be." He fails to realize that he looks like a total idiot because he keeps saying, "I changed" and then does the same dumb ass stuff over and over again.
Of course, because she can't be bothered to check in with her kids on a regular basis and see how they are, The Ex had no idea that this was going on with Nice Girl. She went on Facebook, saw this post, and commented:
"Sooo true. Some people just want to make people look bad when there (*their) life has gotten sooo good...mom..."
What she is trying to hint at is that Husband and/or I just try to make The Ex look bad because of her past choices. The issue is that these are not "past choices." It's all the exact same choices, just different times and with different people. Additionally, nothing about her life is "sooo good." She is engaged to a weak, pathetic man; the house she lives in and the car she drives do not belong to her; she's trying to get custody of only one of her two oldest children but doesn't understand that she'll have to prove why she deserves it, and she can't. But as always, she's got herself convinced that she lives an amazing life and we're just jealous and try to throw her past in her face.
The Ex's younger sister saw the post and commented:
"I agree 100% with that [Son first and last name] look what ive been thru the last couple months"
Here's a little history: this woman is 30 years old, lived with her parents until they moved in with The Ex and is now staying with her brother and his family, has no job, the vehicle she drives was purchased by her dad and put into her name to hide it from Social Security, and she is a felon because she helped steal almost $8500 from her parents. Her felony charge was originally a 30-day sentence with 1-year probation; she served her 30 days, got released, and was back in jail in under 10 days for selling drugs to an undercover officer. She then somehow managed to obtain work-release privileges, and then lost those because she returned to jail from "work" and her drug test came back positive. What she's referring to having "been thru the last couple months" is getting beat up by a guy she was hoping to date - a guy who previously had convictions for child neglect, battery, and disorderly conduct.
So no, not a single damn one of you can relate to what Son posted, including Son himself, because you all claim to have grown and changed yet you all keep making the exact. Same. Stupid. Choices.
"If you're judging someone based on who they used to be, obviously it's you who's stuck in the past."
Son is passive-aggressively stating to Nice Girl that if she doesn't want to date him, then it's her problem because she won't get over who he "used to be." He fails to realize that he looks like a total idiot because he keeps saying, "I changed" and then does the same dumb ass stuff over and over again.
Of course, because she can't be bothered to check in with her kids on a regular basis and see how they are, The Ex had no idea that this was going on with Nice Girl. She went on Facebook, saw this post, and commented:
"Sooo true. Some people just want to make people look bad when there (*their) life has gotten sooo good...mom..."
What she is trying to hint at is that Husband and/or I just try to make The Ex look bad because of her past choices. The issue is that these are not "past choices." It's all the exact same choices, just different times and with different people. Additionally, nothing about her life is "sooo good." She is engaged to a weak, pathetic man; the house she lives in and the car she drives do not belong to her; she's trying to get custody of only one of her two oldest children but doesn't understand that she'll have to prove why she deserves it, and she can't. But as always, she's got herself convinced that she lives an amazing life and we're just jealous and try to throw her past in her face.
The Ex's younger sister saw the post and commented:
"I agree 100% with that [Son first and last name] look what ive been thru the last couple months"
Here's a little history: this woman is 30 years old, lived with her parents until they moved in with The Ex and is now staying with her brother and his family, has no job, the vehicle she drives was purchased by her dad and put into her name to hide it from Social Security, and she is a felon because she helped steal almost $8500 from her parents. Her felony charge was originally a 30-day sentence with 1-year probation; she served her 30 days, got released, and was back in jail in under 10 days for selling drugs to an undercover officer. She then somehow managed to obtain work-release privileges, and then lost those because she returned to jail from "work" and her drug test came back positive. What she's referring to having "been thru the last couple months" is getting beat up by a guy she was hoping to date - a guy who previously had convictions for child neglect, battery, and disorderly conduct.
So no, not a single damn one of you can relate to what Son posted, including Son himself, because you all claim to have grown and changed yet you all keep making the exact. Same. Stupid. Choices.
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