Oh my actual goodness, part three......
She is just....wow. I mean, I know she's crazy, but.... *sigh*
So after this insanity last Friday, The Ex ignored Husband for three days. Then she fired off this gem Monday night:
"The claim with all this, is only showing how immature you and [my name, misspelled again] are. (We expect the court order to be followed and somehow that makes us immature. Also, I don't entirely understand this sentence.) How would you feel getting to your childs (*child's) school, no where (*nowhere) to park, but down the road ("nowhere to park but down the road" should not have been separated by a comma.) and by the time you get to the school and maybe find a seat or enough seats to sit, (Have someone save seats for you or whoever is picking up the kids. You have asked Son and Daughter to do this for you for years every single time they have a school activity that you bothered to attend; why can't you do it now?) my daughter may have sang already??? (The concert starts at 7pm. Google Maps shows it's only one hour and forty-eight minutes from our house to the school. Even if you're running late, you mean to tell me that the concert starts immediately at 7pm with no introduction, your daughter is the first one to sing, and she's only singing one song?) Only shows AGAIN what kind of people you 2 are... (What kind of people are we? I'm dying to know.) But a lot of people already know that. (This is true; a lot of people do know who we actually are, not the skewed version of us that you give them. That's why unlike you, we have people in our lives who have been our friends for years, even decades. You make new "friends" every time you decide you're unhappy with life and decide to uproot your kids.) What's 1 more hour?? (It's 60 minutes.) This is only you 2 wanting me to beg. (Husband already told her that he doesn't want her to beg, he wants her to follow the court order. He didn't say he'd think about it, he didn't say he'd get back to her; he said she could get the kids at 5pm even though she returned them late. I don't know where on earth she's getting this idea that we want her to keep asking and/or begging after he's already said what he needs to say.) Dream on... ("Dream on"? About what, exactly? What is that supposed to mean? Oh my word, I can't stop laughing...) The kids are the ones seeing all this. (The kids are "seeing all this" because you're screenshotting all of it and texting it to them. Son's counselor has never met you and already believes you and your narcissism are very unhealthy.) Go ahead and keep proving what JACKS you 2 have been to me these 9 years+ (We used to be a lot nicer. I mean, a lot nicer. Case in point: our first year with the kids, we bought them Valentine's cards to take to school and I thought it would be a nice gesture to have them make some for The Ex and her daughter, so we did that and mailed them out. Do you know what she was doing the same exact day that I was having Son and Daughter make her Valentine's Day cards? She was in Attorney 2's office, signing an affidavit which stated that Husband physically abused me, that we left the kids unattended/unsupervised and forced them to watch Baby Girl who was not quite three-years-old at the time, that the previous GAL was biased which caused her to lose placement, and that the kids didn't want to live with us or go to school here. But please, elaborate on how we have treated you for "9 years+". Ignorant cow...)
Someone will be there at 5pm (Awesome. Thanks for typing one relevant sentence in this entire message.)
And YES I'm glad there's 2 houses... (You're glad we have it, but you never use it. Because logic.) 1 more person to see how heartless you 2 are." (....is she of the impression that there is an individual monitoring our 2houses account? That somewhere halfway across the world, we have one person who is reading everything that she and Husband send back and forth? What on earth is she talking about?!)
In a matter of four days, The Ex has called Husband and/or me childish, a liar, heartless, immature, jacks, and heartless for a second time. And even with all of that, she still expects us to do things exactly as she wants them done and if we don't, she claims that it's because we want her to beg.
Husband didn't bother replying. First, because there's nothing more to say/there are no questions to answer; second, because there's no point. She is always right and we are always wrong. She is always good and we are always bad.
I did comment to someone else though that it's quite interesting: the last message just went to prove that picking the kids up early had absolutely nothing to do with going to their sister's concert, and everything to do with what was most convenient for The Ex. She once again tried to use her children as a bargaining chip. There is just nothing that's off-limits.
So after this insanity last Friday, The Ex ignored Husband for three days. Then she fired off this gem Monday night:
"The claim with all this, is only showing how immature you and [my name, misspelled again] are. (We expect the court order to be followed and somehow that makes us immature. Also, I don't entirely understand this sentence.) How would you feel getting to your childs (*child's) school, no where (*nowhere) to park, but down the road ("nowhere to park but down the road" should not have been separated by a comma.) and by the time you get to the school and maybe find a seat or enough seats to sit, (Have someone save seats for you or whoever is picking up the kids. You have asked Son and Daughter to do this for you for years every single time they have a school activity that you bothered to attend; why can't you do it now?) my daughter may have sang already??? (The concert starts at 7pm. Google Maps shows it's only one hour and forty-eight minutes from our house to the school. Even if you're running late, you mean to tell me that the concert starts immediately at 7pm with no introduction, your daughter is the first one to sing, and she's only singing one song?) Only shows AGAIN what kind of people you 2 are... (What kind of people are we? I'm dying to know.) But a lot of people already know that. (This is true; a lot of people do know who we actually are, not the skewed version of us that you give them. That's why unlike you, we have people in our lives who have been our friends for years, even decades. You make new "friends" every time you decide you're unhappy with life and decide to uproot your kids.) What's 1 more hour?? (It's 60 minutes.) This is only you 2 wanting me to beg. (Husband already told her that he doesn't want her to beg, he wants her to follow the court order. He didn't say he'd think about it, he didn't say he'd get back to her; he said she could get the kids at 5pm even though she returned them late. I don't know where on earth she's getting this idea that we want her to keep asking and/or begging after he's already said what he needs to say.) Dream on... ("Dream on"? About what, exactly? What is that supposed to mean? Oh my word, I can't stop laughing...) The kids are the ones seeing all this. (The kids are "seeing all this" because you're screenshotting all of it and texting it to them. Son's counselor has never met you and already believes you and your narcissism are very unhealthy.) Go ahead and keep proving what JACKS you 2 have been to me these 9 years+ (We used to be a lot nicer. I mean, a lot nicer. Case in point: our first year with the kids, we bought them Valentine's cards to take to school and I thought it would be a nice gesture to have them make some for The Ex and her daughter, so we did that and mailed them out. Do you know what she was doing the same exact day that I was having Son and Daughter make her Valentine's Day cards? She was in Attorney 2's office, signing an affidavit which stated that Husband physically abused me, that we left the kids unattended/unsupervised and forced them to watch Baby Girl who was not quite three-years-old at the time, that the previous GAL was biased which caused her to lose placement, and that the kids didn't want to live with us or go to school here. But please, elaborate on how we have treated you for "9 years+". Ignorant cow...)
Someone will be there at 5pm (Awesome. Thanks for typing one relevant sentence in this entire message.)
And YES I'm glad there's 2 houses... (You're glad we have it, but you never use it. Because logic.) 1 more person to see how heartless you 2 are." (....is she of the impression that there is an individual monitoring our 2houses account? That somewhere halfway across the world, we have one person who is reading everything that she and Husband send back and forth? What on earth is she talking about?!)
In a matter of four days, The Ex has called Husband and/or me childish, a liar, heartless, immature, jacks, and heartless for a second time. And even with all of that, she still expects us to do things exactly as she wants them done and if we don't, she claims that it's because we want her to beg.
Husband didn't bother replying. First, because there's nothing more to say/there are no questions to answer; second, because there's no point. She is always right and we are always wrong. She is always good and we are always bad.
I did comment to someone else though that it's quite interesting: the last message just went to prove that picking the kids up early had absolutely nothing to do with going to their sister's concert, and everything to do with what was most convenient for The Ex. She once again tried to use her children as a bargaining chip. There is just nothing that's off-limits.
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