She's spiraling...

  Girlfriend has continued to tell me throughout the week how frustrated she is with The Ex.  She first told me last Sunday that they were suddenly responsible for watching the kids for an entire week; you can read about that here.

  Tuesday, she messages me saying that the two kids refuse to pick up after themselves and she felt like their maid.  She said she knew for a fact that they picked up when The Ex was home, but suddenly refused to do it.  She said that she told The Ex's daughter to pick up her mess and she replied, "Well Mom just normally cleans up after us and doesn't complain."  I told Girlfriend that I doubted that story because I can't imagine The Ex not complaining.

  We've had a lot of rain here lately; she said that The Ex's youngest child (The sick little bastard who watched Lucifer get punished for months on end for hiding toothbrushes when it was him hiding them all along and letting Lucifer take the fall for it) rolled her rear car window down, didn't tell anyone, left it open all night, and her car got soaked.  She said the window wouldn't go back up, either.  She was pretty livid.

  After she told me all of that, Girlfriend messaged me on Tuesday night saying she was even more pissed off.  Apparently, The Ex told them that she was going on a work trip for work; they learned that this vacation wasn't work-related whatsoever and that the kids had been dumped on them just so The Ex and Ned could be alone for a week.  Girlfriend said that The Ex "is so full of shit" and that she really doesn't want anything to do with her; she said that she'd been the one dragging Son over to their house because it's his mom and the baby's grandma, but she doesn't care anymore.

  Friday afternoon, I told Girlfriend to get ready to hear how terrible Husband and I are, because Daughter has a volleyball tournament the same day that The Ex planned her youngest son's birthday party even though the tournament has been on the calendar since August 21st.  Girlfriend replied, "Why am I trying not to laugh right now" and said that The Ex was going to "have a shit fit."  I told her that I think it's kind of sad that I wanted to tell her what happened, only because I know that The Ex is going to run her mouth to Son about it and at least Girlfriend can tell Son the truth.  Girlfriend said she didn't even think Son was going to the birthday party because he's really mad at The Ex for lying to them about the vacation and then trying to control what they're doing in her house after springing her kids on them for a week.  I told Girlfriend that The Ex and Husband have been divorced for 14 years and she still thinks she can tell him what to do.  Girlfriend said that The Ex is insane and thinks the world revolves around her.

  A few hours later we were talking about The Ex having this birthday party on the same day as Daughter's tournament.  Girlfriend says that The Ex "always plans shit when shit's going on."  She brought up that over the summer, they had planned to come visit us for a weekend; The Ex planned Daughter and The Ex's daughter's birthday party the same weekend that Son and Girlfriend were coming by us, then kept trying to convince them not to come see us and got angry at them when they stuck to their original plans.  I said yeah, I know; she's done it to us for years.  I told Girlfriend that The Ex would try to change the schedule at the last second and if Husband didn't do what she wanted, then she'd tell the kids that Husband was just doing it to hurt her or that he was keeping the kids away from her.  Girlfriend replied, "SHE STILL TRIES TO TELL [SON] THAT"

  Saturday afternoon, The Ex posted on Facebook and tagged Son in the post.  Girlfriend was livid; she untagged Son, screenshot it, and sent it to me.  I'll get to that in another blog post though.

  Sunday afternoon, Girlfriend and I were still talking about how crazy The Ex is.  Girlfriend said that The Ex was mad at them because they told her they have to start packing; they're trying to get their own apartment and Sunday is Son's only day off, so they needed to be at home and not at Ned's house babysitting.  The Ex and Ned were 6 hours away; she told Girlfriend that they were going to leave at 3pm, and that they needed to stay at home with the kids and not take the kids over to their grandparents' house.  Girlfriend told her too bad; the kids will be at their grandparents' and The Ex can call there, because she and Son have things to do and cannot wait until 9pm to do them.

  Then, to top everything else off that happened during the week, Girlfriend messages me again last night.  She said that Ned brought over some things that they had left at his house.  She said that the entire time, Ned basically complained about everything The Ex had complained about after they got home on Sunday.  Ned said that The Ex is pissed at them because she & Ned had left behind laundry but Girlfriend didn't wash it. (I can't.  I just can't.)  Ned also said that the house was a mess when they got home; Girlfriend said she had swept, mopped and vacuumed, and made sure to leave the house exactly as it was when they had gone over.  Ned complained because they had forgotten to get the mail for ONE day.  Ned also complained that The Ex had bought a bouncer for the baby and it had gotten broken; Girlfriend said there was 20 lb. weight limit, she told The Ex that before they used the bouncer, and that The Ex told her it was fine and to put the baby it.  Ned claimed that The Ex had said that Son and Girlfriend were so irresponsible, they shouldn't be getting their own place to live.  I told Girlfriend that The Ex didn't even have "her own place" or even her own car, for that matter.  Girlfriend said she was so mad that it wasn't funny, and that next time The Ex could find a maid because she "wasn't washing [The Ex's] thongs."

  I told her to try not to let it bug her; The Ex is miserable and wants everyone else to be, as well.  Girlfriend said it sucked because now Ned was upset with them because The Ex is "on his ass about everything."  I said that Ned needs to grow a set of balls and put The Ex in her place; it wasn't going to happen, but it needed to.  Girlfriend said that Son has told Ned the same thing.  I told Girlfriend that it was unfortunate, but Ned was going to keep sticking up for The Ex because he loves her and he thought that was what he needed to do, and that The Ex was going to keep using him right up until she didn't need him anymore.  Girlfriend said that Ned is a good guy, that she's known him longer than she's known Son, and that Ned has changed so much because of The Ex.

  Now that we've gotten all of that out of the way, I have to find time to blog about the bullshit that The Ex posted on Saturday and The Ex starting a fight with Daughter over her tournament.