Police report 2007
Along with the report from 2006, we got a report from 2007. Some underage kids had been busted with some of his friends smoking cigarettes. One of them was The Ex's brother, who was 15 at the time.
One of the kids was interviewed and at some point, their mother ended up on the phone with the officer. The mother said two of the kids were headed to The Ex's house to babysit for Son and Daughter while The Ex and someone else (I'm assuming it was The Ex's cousin) went to New City. (The Ex had been dating Boyfriend for about 2 months now) The officer then talked to the kid again; the kid said they were supposed to go to The Ex's apartment and babysit so that The Ex and her cousin (Again, I'm assuming) could go out with their boyfriends. The officer said he knew The Ex had two young children (They were 6 and 4 at the time of this report) and he was surprised by how much he heard of The Ex leaving her kids with family members so she can go out. The kid said "that the arrangement that [The Ex] had made with them this evening was that they could have any alcohol that was in the apartment and stay the night if they would babysit." (She's letting teenagers drink while they babysit her kids and is paying them in alcohol. Are you disgusted yet?) The officer asked if they were aware of minors drinking alcohol at The Ex's; the kid said "that [The Ex] lets several of their friends including other young family members to come up there and drink any time they want." The officer asked if The Ex ever had her small children there while the teens were drinking; the kids said "that it sounds like she does" but they weren't sure. (Regardless of how you try to spin it, there is no excuse for this. To not only give alcohol to teenagers on a repeated basis, but to let them drink while they're supposed to be caring for your children? The Ex is a bad mom, plain and simple.)
The Ex's brother was interviewed and asked why he was using The Ex's address when his parents lived across the street from the police station; he said he had been living with The Ex for a few months (Again, he was 15. His parents didn't abuse him, his parents didn't neglect him; he was a smart-ass who "didn't feel" like going to school, so he dropped out and moved in with The Ex.) The officer asked if he had gotten cigarettes from his cousin; he didn't say anything and wouldn't look at the officer. The officer told him to call his parents and said he would then take him over there.
The officer left the station with The Ex's brother, walked across the street and met The Ex's mom outside of their apartment. The officer told The Ex's mom that they had caught the kids smoking cigarettes, which were possibly bought by The Ex's cousin. The Ex's mom stated "that there was no way any of this stuff could have happened, and that [The Ex] and [The Ex's cousin] would never do anything to get [The Ex's brother] into trouble."
Two days later, the officer had a voicemail from The Ex(I'm just going to type out the entire paragraph):
"[The Ex] stated that she did not appreciate the fact that I was harassing her cousin and accusing her of buying cigarettes, harassing her [brother] and [his] friends. (It's not harassment if you're the douche bags that are breaking the law!!!) [The Ex] stated that as far as her going to [New City] that was none of my business, and that she can leave her kids with whoever she wants. (You're right, you can totally leave them with whoever you want. You can also lose custody, which you did.) [The Ex] also stated she did not appreciate the fact that [her brother's] friends told the police that she gives alcohol to underage persons (But she didn't deny doing it) [The Ex] stated that she has already received one citation for giving alcohol to minors because her [brother's] friends narked her out; she is not going to let this group of friends get her in trouble also. (Then obey the law, dumbass) [The Ex] then stated that if her [brother] and his friends get into alcohol while they are babysitting her children, that that's not something she should be held responsible for and doesn't appreciate being accused of giving alcohol to minors when she is not home when the drinking is going on. (Your primary concern should be that your babysitter is drunk; instead, you're worried that you'll get busted?? And guess what: you are responsible for this if you're the one telling them they can have the alcohol) [The Ex] ended the conversation with AND THAT'S ALL I HAVE TO SAY"
Needless to say, Boyfriend is not the reason that The Ex lost custody. His alcoholism may have factored into it, but it was not the only reason. The Ex lost custody because she is a terrible mom who is constantly putting her own wants and desires above the needs of her children.
One of the kids was interviewed and at some point, their mother ended up on the phone with the officer. The mother said two of the kids were headed to The Ex's house to babysit for Son and Daughter while The Ex and someone else (I'm assuming it was The Ex's cousin) went to New City. (The Ex had been dating Boyfriend for about 2 months now) The officer then talked to the kid again; the kid said they were supposed to go to The Ex's apartment and babysit so that The Ex and her cousin (Again, I'm assuming) could go out with their boyfriends. The officer said he knew The Ex had two young children (They were 6 and 4 at the time of this report) and he was surprised by how much he heard of The Ex leaving her kids with family members so she can go out. The kid said "that the arrangement that [The Ex] had made with them this evening was that they could have any alcohol that was in the apartment and stay the night if they would babysit." (She's letting teenagers drink while they babysit her kids and is paying them in alcohol. Are you disgusted yet?) The officer asked if they were aware of minors drinking alcohol at The Ex's; the kid said "that [The Ex] lets several of their friends including other young family members to come up there and drink any time they want." The officer asked if The Ex ever had her small children there while the teens were drinking; the kids said "that it sounds like she does" but they weren't sure. (Regardless of how you try to spin it, there is no excuse for this. To not only give alcohol to teenagers on a repeated basis, but to let them drink while they're supposed to be caring for your children? The Ex is a bad mom, plain and simple.)
The Ex's brother was interviewed and asked why he was using The Ex's address when his parents lived across the street from the police station; he said he had been living with The Ex for a few months (Again, he was 15. His parents didn't abuse him, his parents didn't neglect him; he was a smart-ass who "didn't feel" like going to school, so he dropped out and moved in with The Ex.) The officer asked if he had gotten cigarettes from his cousin; he didn't say anything and wouldn't look at the officer. The officer told him to call his parents and said he would then take him over there.
The officer left the station with The Ex's brother, walked across the street and met The Ex's mom outside of their apartment. The officer told The Ex's mom that they had caught the kids smoking cigarettes, which were possibly bought by The Ex's cousin. The Ex's mom stated "that there was no way any of this stuff could have happened, and that [The Ex] and [The Ex's cousin] would never do anything to get [The Ex's brother] into trouble."
Two days later, the officer had a voicemail from The Ex(I'm just going to type out the entire paragraph):
"[The Ex] stated that she did not appreciate the fact that I was harassing her cousin and accusing her of buying cigarettes, harassing her [brother] and [his] friends. (It's not harassment if you're the douche bags that are breaking the law!!!) [The Ex] stated that as far as her going to [New City] that was none of my business, and that she can leave her kids with whoever she wants. (You're right, you can totally leave them with whoever you want. You can also lose custody, which you did.) [The Ex] also stated she did not appreciate the fact that [her brother's] friends told the police that she gives alcohol to underage persons (But she didn't deny doing it) [The Ex] stated that she has already received one citation for giving alcohol to minors because her [brother's] friends narked her out; she is not going to let this group of friends get her in trouble also. (Then obey the law, dumbass) [The Ex] then stated that if her [brother] and his friends get into alcohol while they are babysitting her children, that that's not something she should be held responsible for and doesn't appreciate being accused of giving alcohol to minors when she is not home when the drinking is going on. (Your primary concern should be that your babysitter is drunk; instead, you're worried that you'll get busted?? And guess what: you are responsible for this if you're the one telling them they can have the alcohol) [The Ex] ended the conversation with AND THAT'S ALL I HAVE TO SAY"
Needless to say, Boyfriend is not the reason that The Ex lost custody. His alcoholism may have factored into it, but it was not the only reason. The Ex lost custody because she is a terrible mom who is constantly putting her own wants and desires above the needs of her children.
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